Month in Review – October 16th, 2022

“A busy travel month”

I’m back.

Did you miss me?  It’s OK – you can be honest.

This is the first time in 6 years of posting that I’ve gone a solid month between updates.  Sorry – been too busy bouncing around the country.

I started the month by finally taking the plunge into U.S. citizenship.  I showed up on a very hot Tuesday morning to stand in line with 800 other new citizens from 91 countries.  Almost an hour elapsed before I made it through the process and into the air conditioned facility.

The Oath that we all recited did make me wonder: “abjure”, “potentate” – not words I ever hear spoken – particularly not by a group of folks who may still be learning English.  Also entertaining in that I’m not renouncing my British citizenship.  Oh well – I went along with it and obtained my certificate, and a letter from the President.

The next day, I flew out to San Francisco to meet up with Diana and support Marco (and Julie) in his surgery.  We drove up to Sacramento, made sure they got checked into their hotel for the pre-surgery rest, and then checked into our Airbnb.

I picked a place in Midtown, Sacramento – a historic neighborhood just East of downtown, with a lot of old Victorian and other interesting houses.

While Marco was starting the lengthy surgery (9.5 hours with 6 surgeons), we walked to a local breakfast restaurant.  Jennifer, the owner of Morning Fork with her husband, was very welcoming.  When we asked her if there were always so many firemen in her restaurant, she replied, “Oh no, if I’d known I would have worn something cuter.”

Diana thanked her for her kindness and mentioned how important that was to us on surgery day.  She rushed off and came back with a complimentary bottle of champagne for us to enjoy at home.  We were really liking this neighborhood already.

Although very extensive, Marco’s surgery actually went a bit better than expected.  He looked amazing the next day, although in tremendous pain.

A few days later and Marco was on to a liquid diet – very exciting for him after eating nothing orally for so long.

We were amazed at Marco’s strength as he quickly was up and walking around – adding more distance each day, until he was able to quickly climb two flights of stairs.  Julie was a wonderful advocate, managing the doctors and nurses at a very detailed level and making sure she had all necessary information.

 

 

We continued to explore the Midtown neighborhood – enjoying a very unexpected dinner at Moxie – a few blocks from the farmhouse.  It looks like a real hole in the wall from outside.  Then you step into a lovely restaurant with excellent food and presentations.  The menu is very accommodating – if we’ve got it or can find it nearby, we’ll make it for you.  D’s seafood medley and my seabass were both wonderful.

Adamo came to visit on Saturday and we went walking around for several hours before he visited Marco.  All the way down to the Capital building and the river, before randomly bumping into Julie meeting her friend, and getting an unexpected ride home.

We couldn’t let Adamo leave without trying dinner at his namesake restaurant.  We had a very good meal and he loved telling everyone the place was named after him.

After a week, our time at the Midtown farmhouse was coming to an end and extending wasn’t possible.  We relocated to the Kimpton Sawyer hotel downtown – a very comfortable and kind establishment – more on that later.  Amy dropped off Frankie with Diana one day so that she could go and give Marco a Reiki treatment.  She is incredible at that – took Marco’s pain from a 15 out of 10 to zero for a while.  Even when he was standing up.  How does that work?  And why isn’t it being used more often?  Diana was exhausted after a few hours babysitting fearless Frankie at the pool – and had certainly earned her champagne flight at Fizz, just outside the hotel and beside the Golden 1 Center, home of the Sacramento Kings basketball team.

We enjoyed dinner one night at the nearby Brasserie du Monde – wonderful duck liver mousse.

Diana worked with Nina at the Kimpton front desk to extend the room day by day as we anticipated Marco’s release from hospital.  This lady was amazing – said “Hi D”, every time we passed through the lobby, asked about Marco daily, provided D with drink tickets, and comped almost all of our room and other charges on checkout.  Wow!  If you ever find yourself in downtown Sacramento – this is the place to stay.

And finally the day was here – Marco broke free.  He was so happy to be out.

I forgot to share this silly picture he took with his favourite nurse, Boris.  Boris witnessed some of the crazy tales and behaviour the day that Diana sat with Marco during his delirium phase.  You’ll have to ask D for those stories.

We spent the night at the same hotel Julie had been using in Elk Grove, close to the hospital, and then Diana drove Julie’s car home, while I drove Marco’s Subaru to Clorinda’s house and then was dropped at the airport by the wonderful and lovely Caroline.

I had a few days at home before Diana was scheduled to fly back on the Monday.  Anne and Denny tag teamed trying to convince me to fly down for Gretna fest on Sunday.  I checked American Airlines and let them know it was way too expensive for a quick trip.  Denny persisted, and so late on Saturday I checked Southwest, finding prices not too bad.  In a weak moment, thinking of how much I would enjoy a day of music in New Orleans, I booked it.  I was at Denny’s home by 9:30am on Sunday and on the 11:00am ferry across the Mississippi to Gretna at 11:00am.

Jack, Thom, and Alex joined us for this wonderful day of music.  The crowds were very small, the weather perfect, and the bands all outstanding.  We started with the New Orleans Nightcrawlers on the Riverfront stage.  A perfect opener.  They are such a great local brass band with Craig Klein on trombone.

I always  enjoy a good sousaphone solo!

Anne joined us in time for Eric Lindell with their friend Derek Huston on saxophone.  Derek was happy to have his local cheering section on hand.  This was the best band that I’ve heard supporting Lindell – just outstanding musicianship.

We visited “Asian Village” for lunch and I enjoyed a combo plate of two different bao sandwiches – delicious.  I thought the t-shirt on sale at the stall was very clever.

Here are some pictures of the group enjoying the festival.

And then it was time for the band I’d been looking forward to – one of my favourites, Govt Mule.  Warren Haynes and the gang gave us a great show.  It was so nice to be able to stand comfortably up front and enjoy the guitar excellence.

The sunset on the 6:30pm ferry back to New Orleans was impressive:

We stopped in our old neighbourhood, Magazine Street next to our condo, for pizza on the way home.  Theo’s pizza is so yummy.

 

 

I worked from the Webster street patio on Monday morning, and then enjoyed a fun lunch with Anne and Jack at the Chloe.  It was a perfect day to eat outside.  The desert was really creative – sweet potato brulee served in a sweet potato.  The chef was quite proud of his creation when he delivered it to the table.  Then it was time for me to head to the airport and complete my last minute quick getaway.  I’m so glad the Ogans talked me into it.

I landed at Lovefield airport on Monday night, then made the quick drive over to DFW to pick up my D, finally returning from California.

At some point during the week, Diana chatted with Cat and decided that we should fly to San Diego last weekend for Kristina’s 60th birthday.  Another last minute trip was underway.  We flew out on Saturday morning, dropped our bags at the hotel, and enjoyed brunch at the nearby Mission restaurant.

After that we met up with Kris and Cat at their new house – getting there but a lot to be done before they attempt to obtain an occupancy permit on December 1st.

Cat suggested that we stop in La Jolla to pass some time before our dinner reservation.  Great idea – let’s go to Herringbone!  The ladies enjoyed happy hour oysters and I loved my “campfire Old Fashioned” – complete with toasted marshmallow, smoke, and a Graham cracker rim.

I chose “Et Voila” for dinner.  We chuckled thinking of David and his “Voila, Merci” commentary.

This restaurant was outstanding – great service and food, with Missy Burns doing an excellent job of managing the joint while the owner was away.

Everyone loved their meal – yummy baguette, scallops, mussels, and veal.  And all topped off with authentic profiterols.

The night wasn’t over yet.  Our hotel was right next to Petco baseball stadium and the Padres were in position to win their playoff series with the LA Dodgers on Saturday night.  We visited the rooftop bar and had a great view into the stadium.  It was funny to hear the roar of the crowd and then see what happened on TV after a delay.

I think we successfully distracted Kris and Cat from the home building stress for a few hours.

No visit to San Diego is complete without meeting up with Campbell and Mary Bartlett (Molly).  We enjoyed crab and lobster benedicts at the Harbor breakfast restaurant in Little Italy.  They both seem to be doing really well.

I was able to watch the first half of the Cowboys and Eagles football game on the plane home.  It didn’t go the way I wanted at all.  And another last minute weekend getaway was complete.

Mid-month, Will and Christine flew to Spain for a wedding.  Here are the well edited and doctored pictures from that expedition:

We were very pleased to get the news that Dad was finally accepted into a care home, after a year in the hospital ward.  He seems to be settling in okay on most days, with the usual ups and downs.  Here’s a picture of his new digs:

We hope he continues to adjust well to his new environment.

My book this week (I’ve struggled to find the time or inclination to read much recently) was “Upgrade” by Blake Crouch.  I loved this book – a combination of a perfectly paced thriller and near-future sci-fi.  I’m  not usually a sci-fi fan but this story about gene manipulation really didn’t seem too far fetched.

On initially having his DNA “upgraded”:

“Imagine walking through Times Square in New York City and registering each environmental stimulus equally and simultaneously.  The tiny chip in the sidewalk underfoot being given the same priority as every last detail of every incoming pedestrian and the smell of exhaust and food trucks and steam venting out of the subway and urine and every snippet of passing conversation crashing through the auditory inputs right alongside an avalanche of distinct sights, sounds, smells, and tactile sensations of a city in full operation.

The absence of sensory gating is a key maker for schizophrenia, and actually contributes to making people go insane.  An existence without gating would be torture.”

Miriam, the main character’s mother, on why humans continue to destroy their planet:

“”So you’re saying that people are too stupid?” Basri asked.

“Not just that,” Miriam said.  “It’s denial.  Selfishness.  Magical thinking.  We are not rational beings.  We seek comfort rather than a clear-eyed stare into reality.  We consume and preen and convince ourselves that if we keep our heads in the sand, the monsters will just go away.  Simply put, we refuse to help ourselves as a species.  We refuse to do what must be done.  Every danger we face links ultimately back to this failing.””

I highly recommend this book.

I watched a new Brian Wilson movie on one of my many flights this month, and really enjoyed it.  Most of the movie is a music reporter driving Brian around Los Angeles and visiting historically significant locations from his life and career.  They listen to music along the way, with Brian telling some great stories about the creation of iconic Beach Boys songs.

Here’s an excellent collaboration with Jim James of My Morning Jacket from the soundtrack:

And a lesser known Dennis Wilson track:

I enjoyed an interview with Sir Elton John in the movie where he talks about the chord structure in “Someone Saved My Life Tonight: being a copy of that in “God Only Knows.”  Can you here it?

Two of my dessert island disk selections for sure.  I’ll leave it at that for this posting, and remind myself that it’s too much work to go this long between postings.

Coexist peacefully, with kindness and compassion for all!

 

 

 

Week in Review – September 18, 2022

“An Austin Ramble”

I made the drive down to Austin on Monday, arriving at the hotel in time to check in and relax a bit before the Bob Schneider concert at the Saxon Pub.  Denny and Anne had made a last minute plan to join me in Austin for a few days, and they arrived just in time to catch some of the concert.

These Lonelyland concerts are always such a treat.  You never know what kind of music is coming next and the band is excellent.  Schneider always brings his own special brand of humour.

After the show, we walked around the corner to the excellent Tiki Tatsu-Ya.  We enjoyed some snacks (spam sliders and taro tots anyone?) and fancy Tiki drinks.

It was a short walk downhill to the Carpenter Hotel and the week was off to a good start.

After work on Tuesday, I met Denny and Anne downtown for appetizers at Peche (Diana’s favourite Austin restaurant).

Tuesday was HAAM (Healthcare Alliance for Austin Musicians) day, with bands playing all over town throughout the day.  One of my very favourite charities, started by the lovely Marcia Ball.  Denny and Anne had enjoyed a bike ride around the river trail and some music during the day.  Researching bands, Denny selected C-Boys Heart and Soul as our first stop.  There was confusion on the band scheduling and the rockabilly band expected was in fact a 1950s lounge style band.  We didn’t stay long – opting to walk down to Guero’s and see Jonathan Tyler perform in the Oak garden.  Tyler put on a good show after he warmed up a bit.  We listened for a while and then enjoyed some tacos at the restaurant next door.

Anne was intent on catching the last band at the Yeti flagship store, but apparently Denny and I didn’t walk quickly enough and they had just finished.  I did find a new colour of coolers that I knew Diana would like.

Having been stymied at Yeti, we walked across to Ego’s, where karaoke was in full force.  We spent a fun couple of hours being greatly entertained by a very diverse group of performers.  Highly recommended.

A quick stop at Barton Springs Saloon and another excellent rambling adventure through South Austin was complete.

Denny and Anne decided to attend the Austin FC soccer match on Wednesday evening.  I had a Board meeting early on Thursday and so decided to  have a quiet evening.  I did meet up with the New Orleanians at June’s All Day for a snack before they left.

And as is typical – just one more quick stop.  They talked me into dropping them (and joining) at the Half Step on Rainey before catching the light rail service out to the soccer arena.

Austin FC is really a big deal locally, with all the games selling out.

Denny and Anne reported having a great time at the game.  And I had an excellent meal at the Carpenter restaurant – shaved zucchini salad and wild boar ragu – both really tasty.

The Board meeting on Thursday morning was very smooth, gaining approval for all that we needed.  I met a colleague for lunch in North Austin, enjoying the wonderful seafood at Salt Traders, and then made the drive home in the afternoon.

I got both my flu and new COVID booster shots on Friday afternoon.  No effects on Saturday, but a light flu feeling on Sunday morning.  Friday and Saturday were quiet days at home – good to relax after all the excitement in Austin.

I met Finn for a Thai lunch today.  He’s in great spirits, having received much praise from the store manager about his new truck unloading process.  He also hired the final member of his team – finally at full strength after many months.  The spicy Thai curry seems to have cleared up some of my flu symptoms.

I’m currently watching the Cowboys play the Cincinnati Bengals.  The much maligned Cooper Rush (backup QB) is playing very well with the score at 14-3 Cowboys.  As usual, we are experiencing multiple silly penalties that let the Bengals stay in the game.  I’m pleased that it’s at least a competitive game so far.

My book this week is “Tomorrow and Tomorrow and Tomorrow” by Gabrielle Zevin.  With the travel and adventures this week, I’m only a bit less than half way through this novel, and am really enjoying it.  I was quite skeptical given the online gaming backdrop, but am very pleasantly surprised with how well the story is flowing.  Here’s the summary:

In this exhilarating novel by the best-selling author of The Storied Life of A. J. Fikry two friends–often in love, but never lovers–come together as creative partners in the world of video game design, where success brings them fame, joy, tragedy, duplicity, and, ultimately, a kind of immortality.

On a bitter-cold day, in the December of his junior year at Harvard, Sam Masur exits a subway car and sees, amid the hordes of people waiting on the platform, Sadie Green. He calls her name. For a moment, she pretends she hasn’t heard him, but then, she turns, and a game begins: a legendary collaboration that will launch them to stardom. These friends, intimates since childhood, borrow money, beg favors, and, before even graduating college, they have created their first blockbuster, Ichigo. Overnight, the world is theirs. Not even twenty-five years old, Sam and Sadie are brilliant, successful, and rich, but these qualities won’t protect them from their own creative ambitions or the betrayals of their hearts.

Spanning thirty years, from Cambridge, Massachusetts, to Venice Beach, California, and lands in between and far beyond, Gabrielle Zevin’s Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow is a dazzling and intricately imagined novel that examines the multifarious nature of identity, disability, failure, the redemptive possibilities in play, and above all, our need to connect: to be loved and to love. Yes, it is a love story, but it is not one you have read before.”

I’ll have a lot more to say about this book next week – and I suspect some very positive commentary.

I’ve been trying some ambient music to quieten down my brain at night and let me drift peacefully off to sleep.  I really enjoy this one:

There’s a new Miles Davis collection out that I’ve been loving.  Check out this live cover of Cyndi Lauper:

Finally, I heard this song on the radio in Austin and thought it was really different and creative:

Coexist peacefully, with kindness and compassion for all!

 

 

Week in Review – September 11, 2022

“Home Alone 2”

Monday saw us heading outside for a run together for the first time in a few months – it’s just been too hot and humid.  The first part was fine but then it started to heat up and became hard work.  Good running weather will be coming soon.

After the run, we put the top down on Penelope and had an excursion to Filtered in downtown McKinney for coffee and quiche (actually Diana had a veggie Galette.)

Finn joined us for burgers, potato salad and grilled vegetables for  the traditional Labor day cookout.  He’s looking well and doing great things at work.  His department was number 2 in a district of around 30 stores last month.  Finn enjoyed seeing the pictures and videos from our trip to Scotland.

We watched the end of Tiafoe’s amazing defeat of Nadal in the U.S. Open.  Lots of upsets in that tournament so far.

Tuesday was a quiet day overall.  We watched a new (to us) series on Apple TV called “Surface.”  This is a promising mystery series about a lady in San Francisco who loses her memory and is trying to piece together what happened to her.

After that I tried, and failed in the fourth set, to stay awake to watch the Kyrgios tennis match.  Why do they have them start so late?  Checking in the morning I saw that Kyrgios couldn’t control his emotions and ended up losing in five sets.  It’s exciting to see the next generation of players coming up.

We had another swim together on Wednesday – maybe this is going to become a regular thing.  I’m going to have to swim much faster to keep up with Diana.  I watched Tiafoe play again in the afternoon – he really destroyed Rublev.  Such an exciting player!  As I was watching the tennis, it occurred to me that I didn’t see any line judges.  Some Googling revealed that’s because they don’t have them anymore – it’s all done with the Hawkeye computer system.  The voices volume and tone is adjusted based on the situation – loud for very close calls so that they players can hear above potential crowd noise.  The only time live people are involved is with foot faults – apparently the computer can’t do that yet.

I dropped Diana at the airport on Thursday afternoon – she’s back out to California to spend time with her Mom and Marco.  Since then things have been pretty quiet.  I fell asleep before the first game of the NFL season on Thursday night.  I did have a nice FaceTime with Vince and Lori at their lake house in the Adirondacks.  Their daughter, Alex, was married last weekend.  I love this picture – such a happy Dad and daughter:

The football season continued in earnest today.  I’m watching the Eagles and Lions just now – close game.  The Cowboys play tonight and I’m hoping to stay awake and watch it.  They play the Tampa Bay Buccaneers, led by the un-retired Tom Brady and it should be a good game.

I really enjoyed my book this week – “Lessons in Chemistry” by Bonnie Garmus.  This was a very entertaining read and reminded me a bit of the humour in “Eleanor Oliphant is Just Fine”.  Here’s the GoodReads summary:

Chemist Elizabeth Zott is not your average woman. In fact, Elizabeth Zott would be the first to point out that there is no such thing as an average woman. But it’s the early 1960s and her all-male team at Hastings Research Institute takes a very unscientific view of equality. Except for one: Calvin Evans; the lonely, brilliant, Nobel–prize nominated grudge-holder who falls in love with—of all things—her mind. True chemistry results.

But like science, life is unpredictable. Which is why a few years later Elizabeth Zott finds herself not only a single mother, but the reluctant star of America’s most beloved cooking show Supper at Six. Elizabeth’s unusual approach to cooking (“combine one tablespoon acetic acid with a pinch of sodium chloride”) proves revolutionary. But as her following grows, not everyone is happy. Because as it turns out, Elizabeth Zott isn’t just teaching women to cook. She’s daring them to change the status quo.

Laugh-out-loud funny, shrewdly observant, and studded with a dazzling cast of supporting characters, Lessons in Chemistry is as original and vibrant as its protagonist.”

Elizabeth Zott is a wonderful character – has me thinking of a combination between Julia Child and Margaret Thatcher.  Her daughter, Madeline, and dog, Six-Thirty, are also very well done – isn’t it strange that a dog is a believable character?  He really is.  The book did drag a bit in the last quarter, before the conclusion, but highly recommended overall.

I love Chris Rea and totally missed the massive set of “Blue Guitars” albums that he released in 2005.  A full history of the Blues over many albums – lots for me to listen to.

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Bill Wyman’s Rhythm Kings was another new find this week – they have a lot of good tunes:

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Coexist Peacefully with kindness and compassion for all!

Week in Review – September 4, 2022

“Back Home from Scotland”

I joined Mum for a final breakfast at Meldrum House on Monday morning.  The bride and groom were enjoying breakfast as well and we got to catch up with the whole family before starting our drive home.

If you zoom in on the picture above you can see Heather and Michael peeking out behind the doors of their “turret room.”

BP got into one last piece of mischief – posing atop Heather and Michael’s car with the one remaining bow attached.

The drive back home was smooth, with a quick stop at some Services near Stirling for a coffee and some supplies.  Diana very wisely saved the extra large coffee cups for our 4 a.m. start on Wednesday.

The Dunlops visited on Monday evening and it was fun to listen to their stories, tired as we were from the journey.  Our favourite was a relative saying, “I just need to switch on my electric blanket now”, as a way to indicate to guests that it was time for them to leave.

Diana and I went for an extended walk/run on Tuesday morning – all the way down the Lainshaw Woods trail and round to look at the fancy new housing development.  We visited Dad in the afternoon and had a wee birthday party for him.  He made a valiant attempt at blowing out his candles – which we shouldn’t have used in a ward with oxygen – oopsy!

We stopped in for coffee and a cake at Morrisons on the drive home.  I navigated from the hospital to Morrisons and home with no issues – just getting adjusted again in time to fly back to right hand side driving.

The 4 a.m. alarm on Wednesday morning was harsh, but up we popped and headed to Glasgow airport.  Some snack breakfast in the British Airways lounge, then breakfast again on the flight to London.  Heathrow was much easier this time with no bag screening requirement – they trust the folks in Glasgow much more than those in Dallas apparently.  We spend a few happy hours in the lounge again – this one pretty fancy with custom order breakfast options, rose champagne that was fully approved by McD, and lots of other goodies.

Then we rode the train out to board the Dallas flight.  I’m always amazed at the massive scale of the double decker planes they use.

Everyone got strapped into their upstairs pods and off we went for the 9.5 hour flight home.

Lots more eating and drinking, reading, and movies and we were in Dallas.  All settled at home 20 something hours after rousting in Stewarton.

There was a lovely blessing ceremony in the Crosshouse hospital chapel on Wednesday afternoon.  Everyone got dressed back up in their wedding finery so that Dad could participate in the blessing.

Elspeth was the first to walk into the chapel with him, and he said “Wow!” on seeing her outfit.  The chapel personnel did a beautiful job of arranging things for the ceremony.  What a wonderful idea to do this.

I was back into work on Thursday and coped with the jet-lag relatively well.  Friday was pretty quiet heading into the three day weekend.

We watched the new Elvis movie over the weekend.  Very well done but so dark and depressing.  The “Colonel” has a lot to answer for.

The U.S. Open tennis occupied most of the rest of our viewing time.  Some really great early matches – Nick Kyrgios defeating Medvedev was an outstanding performance.  It will be interesting to see what he does in his next matches.

Diana joined me to swim laps at APEX on Sunday morning – she did really well for not having swum in so long.  We’ll try to get her swimming again next week.

My book this week was “Acceptance” by Emi Nietfeld.  This is a memoir about a variety of struggles growing up, and overcoming those to attend Harvard, work at Google, and embark on a successful writing career.

I was hooked in the beginning but tired of the repetitive seeming details and the way major portions of the narrative seemed to be skipped.  This excerpt from the  NY Times review says well what I thought:

“Despite the narrative’s inconsistent pacing — exhaustively detailed at points and conspicuously glossed over at others — Nietfeld’s gifts for capturing the fury of living at the mercy of bad circumstances, for critiquing the hero’s journey even while she tells it, make “Acceptance” a remarkable memoir. At every turn she asks us to remember the cost of success stories like hers: This all might make for a great story, but it doesn’t make for a very nice world to live in.”

I did enjoy the details on the Ivy League admissions process and on how Nietfeld dealt with the prestige of those institutions.

I enjoyed this tune from a Chris Squire solo album – he was the bass player for Yes.  Great musicianship and horn arranging:

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I love this from “Sunnyland Slim” – a blues piano player born in the Mississippi Delta in 1906, who moved to Chicago and was a founder in the local blues movement:

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And finally, a great cover of “That’s How I Got to Memphis”, originally by Tom T. Hall.  There are several good covers of this one.

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Coexist peacefully, with kindness and compassion for all!

 

Week in Review – August 28, 2022

“Scottish Wedding Day”

We traveled to Scotland on Monday night, arriving into Heathrow on Tuesday morning.  The flight was pretty comfortable and we both got a decent amount of sleep – that meant we were reasonably refreshed for the 90 minute security queue on arrival.  Like so many other outfits, they just can’t get enough folks to work the security lanes.  Our flight up to Glasgow in the afternoon was again amazing – drinks, coffee or tea and a full meal, all with a smile and chat in less than an hour.  And McD left with several small bottles of bubbly “for the road.”

The size of the Rolls Royce engines on the double decker A380 jet that flew us across the Atlantic is amazing – like a truck bolted on to the wing.

The rental car offered in Glasgow wasn’t exactly what I anticipated, but we made it work just fine, arriving in Stewarton in time for dinner (mince and tatties.)

I attended a memorial service for a colleague last Sunday, and remarked to Diana on returning that I had chatted with Woody’s neighbour of 31 years – that just doesn’t happen here anymore, with everyone moving around all the time.  Well – my Mum and Dad’s house in Stewarton is the same one they’ve lived in now for 52 years – and there are a number of the original neighbours still there, including the Harrows next door.  There’s a lot to be said for those kind of roots.

We visited Dad in Crosshouse hospital on Wednesday, and that was a very emotional experience.  He was very pleased to see us and we had a good visit.  Dad enjoyed a trip downstairs and outside in his custom wheelchair – giving helpful directions and instructions along the way.  I smiled when pushing him back into the ward – “Hello everybody, we’re back.  And for those that aren’t aware I’m Ian Robertson and this is Keith.”

The Millhouse restaurant fed us dinner on Wednesday evening.  Always a fun spot and so close to home.  I’m always taken back to the Christmas Eve we spent in the Millhouse bar with David doing his best to get Diana to perform the “You Dancin’?, You Askin’?” routine.  She has it down now and was disappointed when David beat her to it at the wedding dancing.

We visited Dad again on Thursday prior to making the drive up to Aberdeenshire.  The drive is about three and a half hours and Diana did a good job of finding us a coffee/lunch stop – after we finally found it – Google had it on the wrong side of the street.

 

 

The Meldrum house made a wonderful first impression – Mum checked into her luxury suite and we were assigned to a room in “the stables.”  Don’t worry it was very comfortable and had a lot of character.  The Pineapple restaurant served us a delicious meal on Thursday night – from their brand new menu.  The seafood dishes were excellent with Diana easily creating her own feast with a lobster tail on the side.  We were ready for an early bed, but met up with family in the very old Whisky cave bar before retiring.

Those lockers are for private whisky stashes – none other than Sir Alex Ferguson (football fans will know the name) has his name on one.  The bar was amazing and well deserving of the Hotel Bar of the Year award.

I was up early on Friday and captured some interesting sunrise shots – the dining “domes” afire with early morning sun.

We enjoyed exploring the grounds and the beautiful golf course before breakfast with Mum.

The Highland cattle live in a field right next to the dining domes, and the adults are named Glen and Garioch, after the local two hundred year old distillery.  They had two babies this year – I don’t know their names.  Shall we have a naming contest?

Mum had been really looking forward to a quiet day with her book, and we headed off to explore the North East coast.  We started in Banff, me remembering a caravan holiday we enjoyed there many years ago.  From there we drove down the coast to Portsoy – famous for the local marble.  We rambled around the harbour, visited a wee shop and had a nice coffee break overlooking the harbour area.

From Portsoy, we continued Westward down the coast to Cullen – a very picturesque wee fishing village.  A stop for lunch at the Cullen Bay Hotel was a real treat.  I got to try the local delicacy, Cullen Skink – smoked haddock, potatoes, and onions in a creamy soup.  It was a very hearty and filling lunch.  Diana opted lighter with some amazing scallops.

 

We walked off lunch with a couple of mile hike down the coastal trail, lovely views abounding.

We made the drive back to Old Meldrum in time to regroup for dinner at the wonderful Indian restaurant in Inverurie – Rajpoot.  Diana shares my opinion that it’s perhaps the best Indian food we’ve ever had.  Mum, Suzanne, (Oxford comma) and the three girls joined us and we had a wonderful dinner.

And the day wasn’t over yet.  Robin, Julie, Russell, and Lorna were waiting to continue the fun in the Cave bar.  It was great to see them again and we had a blast with them the following day at the reception.

At some point during these happenings, David and Michael were “assembling” bows for the getaway car.  I’ve watched this a number of times and it just keeps getting funnier and funnier – particularly the expression on David’s face as he fails to complete a successful assembly:

Now the big wedding day was upon us.  Diana started with a run – enjoying the cool Scottish morning weather.  We laughed when the breakfast hostess commented that she was amazed she could run “in this heat.”  I enjoyed the full Scottish breakfast, not knowing options to eat again prior to the wedding dinner.

A bus drove about sixty of us to the chapel at Aberdeen University.  Heather attended a year of law school there and so had privileges to be married in the chapel.  We were warned about no pictures inside but did manage to get a few before things started.

The organ in the chapel is quite famous, being one of only two of its ilk in the UK – the other in Westminster Abbey.  Here’s some more detail:

The University Chapel of King’s College is home to a fine organ built in 2004 by Bernard Aubertin, one of the world’s leading organ builders. The French Ministry of Culture conferred on him the title of Maître d’art Facture d’Orgues, the highest accolade ever given by France to an organ builder. Although Aubertin’s work is to be found in many countries, this is the very first Aubertin organ in the United Kingdom.

The new organ has three manuals and pedals, with 26 speaking stops. The great organ includes a reconstructed ‘medieval blockwerk’ – in recognition of the age of the building and to replicate the sound the original organ might well have made. The sound quality is built on the French Montre stop – the original inspiration for the staple British organ sound called Diapason. These two sounds encourage congregational singing at services. There is a Trumpet stop to welcome brides, a characteristic French Voix Humaine, and several stops are suitable for accompanying both singers and instrumentalists.

One of the unusual features of the pedal division is a wooden reed stop – Buzene – which gives clarity and depth to the full organ sound. The organ provides a variety of different sounds and colours and has a highly responsive action. The appearance of the instrument enhances the interior of the Chapel and the unique design, with pipes on all four sides, enables the organ to speak freely and naturally throughout the whole building.”

I enjoyed listening to the organ throughout the service – particularly with all the stops pulled out at the conclusion.

We had some time to capture some pictures before the bus took us back to Meldrum House for the reception.

The bus driver selected a particularly narrow road for the return, requiring a few very close passing incidents with cars, and then this:

The thought of the driver backing up and finding a place to turn wasn’t inspiring a lot of confidence.  Fortunately, the road wasn’t really fully closed with a worker quickly moving the sign to let the wedding group through.

We enjoyed some hors d’oeuvres and drinks and then it was time for the reception to start.  I don’t think entrances get much better than this:

David’s speech was excellent – all seventeen minutes of it.  The “alternative vows”, modeled after my Dad’s speech at Elspeth and David’s wedding, a highlight:

After a delicious meal, it was time for the excellent band to set up and the dancing to begin.  We had a break to take some photos outside before that all started.  Here’s the wonderfully precocious Alex all the way from Australia:

And of course the cutting of Lorna’s beautiful cake:

Diana seemed pleased with my commitment to participating in the dancing.  I wasn’t up to the standard that Russell demonstrated during the extended intro to a song that left him stranded on the dance floor with Diana for a while – I think the band was messing around.   They both took it in stride beautifully.  Then there was Diana dancing the Gay Gordons with Heather’s law firm boss.  And all the jumping around with Robin to “Shut Up and Dance With Me!”  Can you tell a great time was had by all?  No?  Well, maybe this will convince you:

Oh yes, I almost forgot a character that also had a lot of fun – apparently getting into all sorts of trouble when we were dancing:

As if Elspeth and David hadn’t done enough over the weekend, they had an open house and barbeque at their home on Sunday afternoon.  It was lovely to relax in the sunshine after the big day, and catch up with folks we didn’t get a chance to talk to much at the reception.

Heather and Michael really enjoyed our wedding gift – the lyrics to an Imagine Dragons song that they had considered for the first dance, but thought better about the speed and beat:

Now it was time for an early night back at Meldrum House.  What a memorable weekend!

My book this week was “An Honest Living” by Dwyer Murphy.  I really enjoyed this crime story set in the New York area.  The reviews are very mixed with some folks disappointed that the story didn’t have more oomph and complaining about all the asides and descriptions – that’s what I particularly enjoyed.  Murphy’s style was just the stuff that I like.  Here’s a typical paragraph that must have frustrated the folks looking for more direct crime story telling:
“Newton would have liked that.  He liked going places and seeing what was on the shelves.  Got thrown out of a party once for berating the hosts over color coding.  That’s how they had them arranged, all the books by the color of their jackets and spines.  They didn’t care what the books were about or who had written them so long as the bookcase looked like a rainbow.  Newton thought that was the most deranged thing he had ever seen.  He was drunk, and that didn’t help.  He could summon up outrage when it came to book though.  Not bad.”
An example of the clever descriptions:
“Around was empty air and dug-out earth but you could almost feel the buildings underfoot, ready to break through the surface like stalks looking for sun, like you could leave them alone with a little water and they would grow on their own, rise up thirty-two stories, and hire a realtor.”
Here’s the online synopsis:
“A sharp and stylish debut from the editor-in-chief of CrimeReads in which an unwitting private eye gets caught up in a crime of obsession between a reclusive literary superstar and her bookseller husband, paying homage to the noir genre just as smartly as it reinvents it. After leaving behind the comforts and the shackles of a prestigious law firm, a restless attorney makes ends meet in mid-2000s Brooklyn by picking up odd jobs from a colorful assortment of clients. When a mysterious woman named Anna Reddick turns up at his apartment with ten thousand dollars in cash and asks him to track down her missing husband Newton, an antiquarian bookseller who she believes has been pilfering rare true crime volumes from her collection, he trusts it will be a quick and easy case. But when the real Anna Reddick-a magnetic but unpredictable literary prodigy-lands on his doorstep with a few bones to pick, he finds himself out of his depth, drawn into a series of deceptions involving Joseph Conrad novels, unscrupulous booksellers, aspiring flâneurs, and seedy real estate developers. Set against the backdrop of New York at the tail end of the analog era and immersed in the worlds of literature and bookselling, An Honest Living is a gripping story of artistic ambition, obsession, and the small crimes we commit against one another every day”

I watched the movie “Dog” with Channing Tatum on the flight over to London.  This is a good flight movie – lighthearted and silly.  The best parts were the songs that opened and closed the film.  Both excellent:
Coexist peacefully, with kindness and compassion for all!

Week in Review – August 21st, 2022

“Monte Warden and the Dangerous Few!”

We drove down to Austin on Tuesday afternoon, arriving in time to join Timmy and his finance team for drinks and appetizers at Bar Peached.  This was a new place on West 6th street for us to try – Tim did well – creative food done really nicely.  Diana enjoyed meeting the various members of the finance team during our brief stay.  Oh, forgot to mention that I introduced Diana to a great little Greek place in downtown Waco for lunch – Alpha Omega has yummy food and good coffee – a nice way to break up the drive.

We left Bar Peached early as we had a reservation for dinner with Damon at The Odd Duck – a place we try to visit on each Austin trip.  The experience was as wonderful as ever – we enjoyed ceviche, watermelon and cucumber salad, falafel, scallops, and pork loin – all relatively small shareable plates.  Guess what?  Yes – Damon was still hungry.  So we ordered the burger and let him have most of it for himself.

Tuesday was back to school day in California.  Gianluca and Olivia look a wee bit less thrilled with the photo experience than Ben does – I suppose they’ve had to endure for a few more years.

Wednesday was a full work day for me – I’m just not used to being in physical meetings with live people all day – no opportunity to catch up on emails or do my puzzles.  I enjoyed lunch with my team at Salt Traders – always such fresh seafood.  Diana was enjoying pool time at the Carpenter hotel with Lisa – so glad they have each other to hang out with when Blair and I are working too much.

 

Only in Austin do you find a dog boarding place next door to the hotel where the dogs on the sign are sporting David Bowie face paint.  “They call them the Diamond Dogs” – very clever Patty.

Then more food – we had an executive team dinner at Sammie’s Italian.  This is apparently the latest hot spot in downtown Austin.  The food was outstanding all around and we enjoyed some lovely wines.  One of the more entertaining quotes of the week came from Tim over after dinner drinks – “There was the time I was checking in at Burning Man and had this girl we smuggled in the trunk of the car.”  That certainly required further investigation.

I was in the office again for most of Thursday.  Then Diana and I had a night just for ourselves.  We visited two more of our favourite haunts – Peche for a lite dinner and then the Parker Jazz Club.  I miss both very much.  What do you think Diana had at Peche?  Indeed – her usual – steak tartare and fig foam Manhattan.

If I had to design a music club just for my tastes, it would be exactly like the Parker.  Wonderful sound and lighting, comfortable seats and tables, great drinks, excellent service and management – just perfect all around.  Monte Warden and the Dangerous Few were the band for the evening.  We had seen a portion of them at the Continental Club Gallery several years ago and enjoyed the musicianship and positive energy.  Warden has written songs that have been chart toppers for several folks, including George Strait.

We had such an enjoyable evening.  Here are some of the performances I liked best, starting with “Martini”:

The trumpet player does a lot of the band arrangements and is quite the virtuoso – here he is showing how to handle a wah-wah mute:

And now with a very sweet flugelhorn sound:

We miss being able to walk to this world class venue so much.

I worked in the office for a few hours on Friday, then we had our last Austin meal at June’s All Day, and started the drive back home.  Diana resisted their wonderful steak tartare and frites – opting for the Nicoise salad instead – better chance of her staying awake to keep me company on the drive.  There was a bit of rain but we made good time and were home before 5pm.  Diana did stay mostly awake for the duration.

My book this week was “The Mars Room” by Rachel Kushner.  I enjoyed one of her short stories in the New Yorker and decided to give this a try.  Great writing but so dark and disturbing.  Here’s the Good Reads summary:

“It’s 2003 and Romy Hall is at the start of two consecutive life sentences at Stanville Women’s Correctional Facility, deep in California’s Central Valley. Outside is the world from which she has been severed: the San Francisco of her youth and her young son, Jackson. Inside is a new reality: thousands of women hustling for the bare essentials needed to survive; the bluffing and pageantry and casual acts of violence by guards and prisoners alike; and the deadpan absurdities of institutional living, which Kushner evokes with great humor and precision.”

I see the “precision” but can’t say I found “great humor” anywhere in this book.  Not sure I’d recommend this unless you are doing some deep research on what it’s like to spend a long time in prison.

Here’s a treat from the wonderful Nathaniel Rateliff.  I’m looking forward to this Leonard Cohen tribute album coming out in October:

And another one where Rateliff is practicing with Jon Batiste:

Finally, something new from the Band of Heathens:

Coexist peacefully, with kindness and compassion for all!

Week in Review – August 14, 2022

“Baby’s Back”

I watched the second episode of “Edge of the Earth – Raging Torrent”, on HBO on Sunday night.  This was an expedition by three crazy kayakers (Ben Stookesberry, Nouria Newman, and Erik Boomer) down the Chalupas river in Ecuador’s vast Llanganates National Park.  They were attempting to be the first to complete the entire 10,000 foot descent of the river through the park.

The kayakers had no map, guide, and only one point of emergency access to the outside world, and as you can imagine had to overcome every kind of hurdle imaginable.  The main challenge was unforecasted heavy rain for many days – making the more tricky parts of the river unpassable.  This necessitated “portage” – getting out of the river and walking for days through the jungle carrying all their equipment.  I won’t spoil your potential enjoyment by sharing how this all ended, but do highly recommend this show based on the first two episodes.

Denny took Anne to Satchmo (Louis Armstrong) fest to kick off her birthday week.  I like this creative picture of the Pinettes brass band that she took:

I got my D back on Tuesday night – her flight was actually early.  She seemed pleased with the house cleaning performed prior to her arrival and inspection – new napkin under coffee makers, cleaned up tables outside, wiped down counters, and cleaned shared bathrooms.  I had advertised a project that I was working on in her absence, and estimated that it would take her a few days to find it.  As of Thursday afternoon, it still hadn’t been found.  Diana gave up on Thursday evening, and I revealed the repair job that I had done on the worn out sofa section behind my head.  “Cheap and tacky looking,” was the encouraging response.  Well – over the course of two days she hadn’t noticed, so it can’t be that bad.

Will and Christine were looking for Heather’s address – she recently moved into a new house.  The address is on “Snibble Gardens.”  This generated a chuckle from McD.  I proceeded to educate her that a “snibble” is similar to a haggis – three-legged and dwelling in mountainous areas.  She wasn’t buying and looked up the definition:

 

I came across the British TV series “C. B. Strike” this week and have enjoyed the first few episodes.  Strike is a private investigator with an interesting history and a modern day Sherlock Holmes type of approach.  I shared the show with Diana on Wednesday evening, gave her a brief summary of the main characters and investigation that had happened over the first three episodes, believing each investigation to be stand alone, and watchable without having seen the first few episodes.  After some grousing about me always watching the first few episodes of shows and then expecting her to try and catch up, she settled in and enjoyed the show quite a bit – just as I predicted.

The episodes were about a murder that had happened in the London literary community.  One of the key findings in the investigation was that a piece of writing had many Oxford commas – and therefore was not in the style of the assumed author.  I had to research the Oxford comma – come to find out I use it quite a bit.  Here’s an example from earlier in this posting:

“new napkin under coffee makers, cleaned up tables outside, wiped down counters, and cleaned shared bathrooms.”  That last comma after “counters” and before “and” is an Oxford comma.  How many of you really knew about the name for this phenomenon?

The show is definitely worth a look:

We had a historically significant event on Wednesday night while watching C.B. Strike – it rained.  Rained for the  first time in 67 days – a massively new record.  No more precipitation in sight for at least the next week – just 100 degree temperatures every day.

I went to Apex for an indoor run on Thursday morning – breaking 2 miles for the first time in a while.  It is much easier to run in air conditioning with a soft track underfoot.  That activity reminded me of this cartoon in the New Yorker – maybe McD and I will finally become a couple that reliably runs together.  Then it was back to annual budget work in the afternoon – hoping that will come to a close soon one way or the other.

We made an attempt at being a “couple who run together” again on Saturday, with a trip to Apex for more indoor running.  I managed to eke out 2.5 miles this time.  I spent Saturday afternoon out by the pool, reading one of my books with McD.  She likes it when I accompany her sunbathing expeditions under my shade.

In New Orleans, Anne celebrated the morning of her birthday by watching the Red Dress Run, put on by Lafitte’s bar.  Kenny and Kara’s daughter and Kelly’s sons participated in the event.  There’s always something entertaining to watch in that city.

 

Today started with my typical swim.  I may rejoin Diana by the pool as it doesn’t look too unbearably hot out and I have another good looking book to read.

Ian McEwan is one of my top three favourite authors, and so I was excited to see his short story, “A Duet”, in the New Yorker this week:

https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2022/08/08/a-duet

There is also an online interview with McEwan on the story and his upcoming book, “Lessons”, to be published in September:

https://www.newyorker.com/books/this-week-in-fiction/ian-mcewan-08-08-22

My first book this week was quite different.  “Entangled Life – how fungi make our worlds, change our minds & shape our futures,” by Merlin Sheldrake is a lovely book about what the title says – how important fungi are to our natural existence.  I haven’t finished this book yet, so will reserve any quotes until I do.  I do highly recommend this to anyone with an interest in nature – a completely different and thoroughly engaging read.  Here’s the online summary:

When we think of fungi, we likely think of mushrooms. But mushrooms are only fruiting bodies, analogous to apples on a tree. Most fungi live out of sight, yet make up a massively diverse kingdom of organisms that supports and sustains nearly all living systems. Fungi provide a key to understanding the planet on which we live, and the ways we think, feel, and behave.

In Entangled Life, the brilliant young biologist Merlin Sheldrake shows us the world from a fungal point of view, providing an exhilarating change of perspective. Sheldrake’s vivid exploration takes us from yeast to psychedelics, to the fungi that range for miles underground and are the largest organisms on the planet, to those that link plants together in complex networks known as the “Wood Wide Web”,  to those that infiltrate and manipulate insect bodies with devastating precision.

Fungi throw our concepts of individuality and even intelligence into question. They are metabolic masters, earth makers, and key players in most of life’s processes. They can change our minds, heal our bodies, and even help us remediate environmental disaster. By examining fungi on their own terms, Sheldrake reveals how these extraordinary organisms – and our relationships with them – are changing our understanding of how life works.”

My next book was “Tracy Flick Can’t Win” by Tom Perrotta.  I read this in one sitting by the pool with Diana on Saturday afternoon – so you can tell it’s a quick and easy read.  I did enjoy the book, but it is very lightweight, not really living up to all the glowing reviews I read.  Many chapters sounded like pages of a script – Perrotta has had several novels made into films, and I wonder if he doesn’t write with that in mind now.  I would certainly recommend this as a pleasant pool/beach read.  Here’s the online review:

Tracy Flick is a hardworking assistant principal at a public high school in suburban New Jersey. Still ambitious but feeling a little stuck and underappreciated in midlife, Tracy gets a jolt of good news when the longtime principal, Jack Weede, abruptly announces his retirement, creating a rare opportunity for Tracy to ascend to the top job.

Energized by the prospect of her long-overdue promotion, Tracy throws herself into her work with renewed zeal, determined to prove her worth to the students, faculty, and School Board, while also managing her personal life—a 10-year-old daughter, a needy doctor boyfriend, and a burgeoning meditation practice. But nothing ever comes easily to Tracy Flick, no matter how diligent or qualified she happens to be.

Among her many other responsibilities, Tracy is enlisted to serve on the Selection Committee for the brand-new Green Meadow High School Hall of Fame. Her male colleagues’ determination to honor Vito Falcone—a star quarterback of dubious character who had a brief, undistinguished career in the NFL—triggers bad memories for Tracy, and leads her to troubling reflections about the trajectory of her own life and the forces that have left her feeling thwarted and disappointed, unable to fulfill her true potential.

As she broods on the past, Tracy becomes aware of storm clouds brewing in the present. Is she really a shoo-in for the Principal job? Is the Superintendent plotting against her? Why is the School Board President’s wife trying so hard to be her friend? And why can’t she ever get what she deserves?”

Apparently there is an earlier novel that follow Tracy Flick as a student.  Maybe I’ll take that on my next beach visit – rumoured to be in late October.

I stumbled across an excellent album this week – “Dylan’s Gospel” is the only studio album by The Brothers & Sisters of L.A., a group of vocalists working as session musicians in the Los Angeles area during the album’s recording in June 1969. The Brothers & Sisters of L.A. was organized by Lou Adler specifically to record the album.  Members of the group included Merry Clayton (of “Ten Feet from Stardom” fame) and Gloria Jones.

I continue to enjoy the most recent Caamp album quite a bit:

The next Tipitinas record club release is from Johnny Adams – hadn’t heard of him before and based on initial research think I’m going to enjoy it:

This Jon and Vangelis song made it on to something I was watching the other night.  I used to play this album all the time and get frustrated with the poor pressing quality – time to revisit in digital:

That’s Dick Morrisey on the saxophone.  He was pretty famous in the early 60s London jazz scene – the famous Ronnie Scott’s jazz club apparently only kept open by the crowd he drew in.  He had a duo with Jim Mullen, Glaswegian member of the Average White Band – I haven’t been able to track down any of their recordings yet.

Ahh, here we go, found some albums on Youtube – nothing too exciting, pretty standard 80s jazz fusion with interesting slap bass and drums:

Coexist peacefully with kindness and compassion for all!

Week in Review – August 7th, 2022

“Home Alone, Again”

We dropped Tim and Dee at the San Francisco airport on Monday morning, and then drove back to Clorinda’s home to relax and regroup.  I had a short Board meeting update in the afternoon, and then we braved all the kids at Amy and Adamo’s home.  They were in typical bouncing off the walls form.  Amy made us some delicious soup for dinner and we called it an early evening.

My Tuesday began early with the time difference – a four hour Board meeting starting at 6am – hooray!  Thankfully the news for the quarter was all good and so the meeting was relatively benign.  Everyone at work is in a good mood with our positive results and the impact those have had on our stock price.

McD dropped me at the airport in the afternoon and I was back home in McKinney by 8:30pm.  I enjoyed the “Family Squares” movie on the flight – a somewhat black humour take on families communicating over Zoom.

After all the corporate Board meetings and earnings announcements, I was ready to hang out with the rich and pretty people at Dan’s Silverleaf in Denton on Thursday night.  Just kidding – it’s a dive music venue filled with people who love and appreciate the same kind of music that I do.  Kevin Galloway was doing a release party for his new album “Secondhand Starlight.”  He recorded the album with Austin band Doug Strahan and the Good Neighbors, and they were the backing band for the evening.  They opened the show with a varied set of songs – great musicians:

Galloway joined the band after about 45 minutes and put on an excellent show all around.  Diana and I saw him solo (or with cello) in Austin a few times – this was a much more lively event (although it did include Gumby on the cello for a few songs.)

I always enjoy “Taking in the View”, a Galloway song that he originally performed with Uncle Lucius – perhaps his most famous composition:

And lastly, “Keep the Wolves Away”, a song about Galloway’s father surviving a chemical accident in Galveston.  This was the only song with accordion and I think the combination of that and the cello really add to the haunting nature of the lyrics:

If you’d like to hear a story about that song and how Galloway has made some good money and obtained a gold record, courtesy of the “Yellowstone” TV series, then check this version out:

What a beautiful night of music – great musicians, sound mixing, venue, people – and all for $20.  Well worth the 40 minute drive over to Denton – and all those traffic lights on highway 380 – there must be at least 30 of them.

Friday was a relatively busy work day for me. I met up with Finn for lunch and enjoyed his stories about work.  He’s changed his shift so that he works a bit later in the afternoon, with the goal of training the “closers” properly so that things are set up properly when he gets there in the morning.  I think every time I talk with him he’s working on some kind of improvement idea.  So nice to see.

Meanwhile Diana slaved away in the Pacifica kitchen, making special Florentine cookies for patient Marco.  She had to work hard to make sure that Clorinda didn’t snag too many.

I count six batches – that’s a very busy D!  Here’s a video of Clorinda selecting “her cookies.”

Olivia joined them in the evening to celebrate her birthday.

There was a near “incident” when Diana went out for her run on the hill on Saturday morning.  On her way back down the hill, I’m sure at top speed, she spotted the momma bobcat and babies in front of her.  When I received the text update, I recommended going back up the hill and waiting a while, or having Alicia pick her up in a car.  I got back a “Yeah, doing that”, with the implication of “I’m not a complete idiot.”  Or maybe I just read that into it.  Either way – D made it safely back to Clorinda’s home without incident.

Having avoided the “incident”, Diana drove down to visit Julie (day after her major surgery) and Marco.  She reported that Julie is doing surprisingly well, although in a decent amount of pain.  Oh – and she delivered the cookies (or those that Clorinda hadn’t snagged) to Marco.

Aimee met up with Diana at Clorinda’s home on Saturday night – it sounds like they had a nice time catching up until the wee hours.

I mentioned a few weeks ago that I was planning to read one section of George Saunders “A Swim in a Pond in the Rain” each week.  I’ve been delinquent for a few weeks, but did complete one “lecture” this week.  As a reminder, this is a book that follows Saunders’ class at Syracuse University.  The subject this week was “The Singers”, a short story by Ivan Turgenev from 1852.

The gist of this story is that two guys are having a singing contest in a remote bar.  Turgenev goes into a lot of detail on various characters who seem superfluous to the plot, but Saunders explains why they are not necessarily so.  The detail on the singing contest is quite moving, one contestant is very technical while the other doesn’t have the same skills but conveys much more emotion, ultimately winning the contest.  It reminded me of my thoughts about Andy Wood who I saw doing a clinic at the Guitar Sanctuary a couple of weeks ago – a great guitar shredder who really didn’t do anything for me.  I compare that to the guitarist in the Jerry Garcia cover band that I saw two Sundays ago – he probably couldn’t play as fast but certainly did a great job of capturing the emotion of the songs.

“What does it mean, that Yashka has won?  To answer, we try to distill the essential characteristics of the two performances.  Broadly speaking:  the contractor was technically wonderful but produced no feeling in his audience except amazement at his proficiency.  Yashka, a little wobbly on technique, evoked undeniably deep feelings in his audience and caused a startling, not entirely rational memory to arise in the mind of the narrator.  So, we feel the story to be saying something about technical proficiency vs. emotional power, and coming down in favor of the latter.  It is saying that the highest aspiration of art is to move the audience and that if the audience is moved, technical deficiencies are immediately forgiven.”

I really enjoyed the way Saunders broke down this short story.  He was originally an engineer, and created a table by page of useful insights that mattered to the singing contest outcome.  He reports that when first asked about this story, his students typically respond that there are too many diversions and irrelevant details.  He then goes ahead and rebuts that (very convincingly) over many pages.

I would have enjoyed studying English with Saunders.  Is it too late?

I also enjoyed a couple of stories from Lauren Groff’s short story collection, “Florida.”  She is such a wonderful writer and conjures up such wonderful pictures of her native state.

Here’s what Goodreads has to say:

“The stories in this collection span characters, towns, decades, even centuries, but Florida—its landscape, climate, history, and state of mind—becomes its gravitational center: an energy, a mood, as much as a place of residence. Groff transports the reader, then jolts us alert with a crackle of wit, a wave of sadness, a flash of cruelty, as she writes about loneliness, rage, family, and the passage of time. With shocking accuracy and effect, she pinpoints the moments and decisions and connections behind human pleasure and pain, hope and despair, love and fury—the moments that make us alive.”

I have a long way to go in this collection, but based on the first couple of stories, I give it two thumbs up and am looking forward to digging into more.  Maybe this afternoon – after I finish up a project that I need to have done before McD returns.

I spent a decent amount of time listening to Radio Paradise this week.  This is a radio station that plays a very wide variety of music that I mostly enjoy – with a very high bitrate stream that sounds great.  Here’s one from their “Mellow Mix:”

Here’s another from the same source, this time from a Scottish band named “Admiral Fallow.”  You can hear the accent clearly – not quite at Proclaimers level though.

And the last one from the Radio Paradise sessions.  I always enjoy songs by Eels:

Coexist patiently with kindness and compassion for all!

Week in Review – July 31st, 2022

“Sonoma Wine Tasting”

I flew to San Francisco on Wednesday.  “The Duke” was a great airplane movie – Jim Broadbent and Helen Mirren in a fun caper about a bumbler stealing a very expensive painting of the Duke of Wellington.

Diana was kind enough to collect me from the airport and shuttle me to Clorinda’s home.  Ken showed up with a salmon he had caught earlier in the day – doesn’t get much fresher than that.

Will and Christine joined us for dinner – not salmon but some delicious vegetarian dishes that Alicia cooked up for us.

Clorinda was enjoying dinner too much for the picture.  That’s Caroline on Clorinda’s right and Yenni, Alicia’s friend, on her right.  We had a very nice evening catching up with the engaged couple.  They shared the album of their engagement pictures.  Here’s a brief sampling – they have so many good ones.

Will also shared this picture of the new artwork that adorns the dance floor on the top of his festival Durango.

We picked up Tim and Dee at the airport on Thursday afternoon, stopped for a quick bite to eat in Sausalito (barely making it out of the San Francisco summer fog), and then made the drive up to Glen Ellen in Sonoma.  Denny and Anne showed up a bit later – they took on an “overly adventurous” biking tour of some wineries.

Friday morning started with some special coffees from Barista Denny – it took him a bit of work to figure out the fancy machine – and pastries from the local patisserie courtesy of Tim and Dee and their early morning coffee expedition.

We bummed around the beautiful house for a while and then enjoyed an excellent Mexican lunch at El Molino, before making the drive up to the Russian River valley for our wine tasting adventures.  I can’t say enough good things about the food at El Molino – delicious sauces, beans, tortillas.

Our first tasting stop was at Gary Farrell winery, situated right above the Russian river with lovely views.  This place was first class – comfy seating, personalized menus, cheeses to match each different wine, and perfect service.  We were off to a strong start.

The Chardonnay was a big hit with the group.  Our next stop was at Sonoma Cutrer winery.  A pleasant spot with okay wines – a bit of a let down from our first winery.  Sheri gave up on waiting on quarantining Sean, and drove up to join us at this stop.

We enjoyed a casual dinner at Lo & Behold in Healdsburg, a charming small town, and then headed back to the house to relax.

Saturday again started out with Barista Denny and then some custom omelets from Chef K.  We opted to stay local with wineries all within a couple of miles of the house.  The first was Talisman – some very good pinots but nothing too exciting.

Diana had maxed out on pinots and so we opted to have lunch at the Jack London saloon while the group visited Lassiter family vineyards.

We enjoyed some local characters and learned a bit about the history of Jack London in Glen Ellen.  The group came back raving about the Lassiter vineyard, and had arranged a tasting for Sunday afternoon so that we could experience it as well.

Dinner was at the Glen Ellen Star – a Michelin notable restaurant and reviewed as the best in the area.  I really enjoyed my wild boar pasta and reviews from others in the party were less positive – I think they were tired from a long day of wine tasting and ready to relax at the house.  The walk home was a bit daunting as there are no street lights at all.  Tim and Denny encountered a skunk that was determined to have a stand off until they turned around – fortunately a car came by and scared it off.

Sunday was a wonderfully relaxing day.  Hanging out in the pool and hot tub, playing ping pong and cornhole, fighting over the music – all the fun stuff of a group vacation.

We did take a break to visit the Lassiter family vineyard in the afternoon.  I’m glad we did – their wines were very varied and all quite tasty.  I love the label art work.

Sean made a socially distanced appearance and so we had all four couples together as originally planned.

Chef Denny cooked up a delicious dinner on the overly complicated grill.

What a wonderful trip and so nice to see Tim feeling well and enjoying life again.  We’re all planning to reconvene in New Orleans for jazzfest next spring.  I did find this picture of what would be an excellent next vacation rental – it’s in the Maldives:

My book this week was “The Guest List” by Lucy Foley.  Not nearly as dark as “The Paris Apartment”, but similarly full of clever plot twists that I should have seen coming.  You really needed to pay attention to the personal histories of the guests to find out who was the culprit.

“A wedding celebration turns dark and deadly in this deliciously wicked and atmospheric thriller reminiscent of Agatha Christie from the New York Times best-selling author of The Hunting Party.

The bride – the plus one – the best man – the wedding planner – the bridesmaid – the body.

On an island off the coast of Ireland, guests gather to celebrate two people joining their lives together as one. The groom: handsome and charming, a rising television star. The bride: smart and ambitious, a magazine publisher. It’s a wedding for a magazine or for a celebrity: the designer dress, the remote location, the luxe party favors, the boutique whiskey. The cell phone service may be spotty and the waves may be rough, but every detail has been expertly planned and will be expertly executed.

But perfection is for plans, and people are all too human. As the champagne is popped and the festivities begin, resentments and petty jealousies begin to mingle with the reminiscences and well wishes. The groomsmen begin the drinking game from their school days. The bridesmaid not-so-accidentally ruins her dress. The bride’s oldest (male) friend gives an uncomfortably caring toast.

And then someone turns up dead. Who didn’t wish the happy couple well? And perhaps more important, why? 

This was a quick and enjoyable read with an interesting setting – a very remote Irish island, mostly covered in peat bog that acted like quicksand if not traversed skillfully.

Something from my favourite Cracker album to kick things off:

And why not follow that up with one from perhaps my favourite band:

And finally an interesting song from a relatively new band:

Coexist peacefully with kindness and compassion for all!

Week in Review – July 25th, 2022

“Home Alone”

I watched the movie “Georgetown” on Sunday night.  This stars Christoph Waltz, Vanessa Redgrave, and Annette Benning, and is directed by Waltz.  I really enjoyed the performances by all three, Waltz is particularly excellent as a consummate conman, leveraging a single, tenuous relationship to gain entry to all kinds of supposed partnerships.

My movie on Monday and Tuesday night (it’s a lengthy one) was “All the Way.”  This stars Bryan Cranston as President LBJ in his first year – working to pass the Civil Rights bills into law.  Cranston is excellent and the depiction of all the various factions – Martin Luther King Jr., Southern Democrats, Liberal Democrats, friendly Republicans – and  the ways that LBJ brings them on board are fascinating.  I really enjoyed this one.

Clorinda finally made a trip to the library on Tuesday afternoon.  Diana and Caroline have been encouraging her to visit as it’s getting quite expensive to keep her in books – but she keeps finding an excuse not to go.  No options provided this time – Diana just told her it was time to go.  And what do you know? – she had a good time and came home with a nice stack of reading material.  Then couldn’t wait to dive in.

The other interest in Pacifica was around the removal of a whale which had washed up on the Sharp Park beach – and was visible from Clorinda’s house.  Quite the operation to get it back out to sea.

Wednesday morning excitement was getting my teeth cleaned – all smooth, no other work necessary.  I had a pleasant Couch to 5K outing at the Apex center at lunchtime to avoid the 106 degree temperatures outside – down from 110 degree records the last couple of days.  Whew!

I coordinated an oil change for Finn’s car on Thursday afternoon and took him for a coffee while the work was being done.  I know – very exciting and he’s totally spoiled.  In the evening I watched the first episode of a new HBO series, “The Edge of the Earth.”

This episode followed two snowboarders and a skier as they attempted to be the first to descend a ridge of a mountain in Glacier Bay National Park, Alaska.  The photography was amazing – making me feel queasy on the couch as they climbed up the snow and ice covered narrow ridge, and then turned around and skied back down it.  An amazing hour of television that made me wonder what drives people to do these highly risky and unnecessary things.  I’m looking forward to checking out the remaining episodes.

After that I listened to some music while reading.  This album cover of Tommy Malone’s got me thinking.  “I wonder where that background is – looks very familiar.”

Then it came to me – it’s a wall mural that we saw in San Miguel de Allende on Denny’s 50th birthday trip.  Anado is an amazing artist from Oklahoma, now making his home there, and offering a very unique tour of the art around his garden.  I remember him mentioning how much he enjoyed Tommy’s music.

I sent Anado an email asking him if there was an interesting story behind the album cover.  Nothing back yet.

Friday was pretty quiet – went for a swim in the afternoon, visited the library, and picked up some cigars for the boys to enjoy on the Sonoma trip.  I was surprised to find how much of a busy place the cigar lounge was – several groups in there chatting, and folks working on laptops while enjoying their cigars.  Note to self.

I enjoyed a relaxing Saturday.  Morning reading, a run at Apex, piano practice, and then I made a trip up to the Guitar Sanctuary for a workshop by Andy Wood.  I enjoyed his stories and demonstrations but not necessarily his constant “shredding” – showing off how incredibly fast he can play.  It just doesn’t feel musical to me – at least not if you do it all the time as a default style.  Here’s one of his songs so that you can see what I mean:

Our local guitar here, Andy Timmons, was in the audience and I think Andy Wood was a bit nervous, thinking Timmons is actually a more accomplished guitar player.  I think he might be right:

Timmons was the musical director for many of Olivia Newton John’s tours, and played in a glam metal band, Danger Danger, in the eighties that sold over a million albums.

On Saturday evening I watched “The Gray Man” movie.  This stars Ryan Gosling, Billy Bob Thornton, and Ana de Armas, and felt very like a poor man’s Bond movie – even down to the soundtrack theme.  One crisis after another for Ryan to fight his way out of.  The highlight for me was the first 90 seconds, featuring the wonderful “Lochloosa” by JJ Grey.

Earlier on Saturday afternoon, I thought the performance by Sydney McLaughlin in the women’s 400 meter hurdles at the World Athletic Championships was amazing.  So far ahead of the field as she destroyed the world record.  Didn’t even look like there were hurdles on her lane.

Sunday began with a nice long swim – I broke a mile for the first time in a long while.  In the afternoon I put on my Jerry shirt and made a trip down to Deep Ellum for the second weekend in a row.  This time to see Rosebud, a Jerry Garcia Band tribute group, at the Deep Ellum Art Co.  This was a new venue for me and I thought it was excellent.  Just the right size, with great sound and a good attitude.  It also had a huge art patio – bit hot for that just now.

Here’s some of the funky art on display and in mural form:

That’s my best Hitchcock in the 2nd to last photo.

And now for the music – Rosebud were excellent – perfect sound and excellent musicianship all around.  Here’s my favourite – “Deal”:

An excellent guitar solo in the middle of “Deal” – this is how you build a solo Andy Wood:

Jerry always loved his Dylan covers.  Here’s “Positively 4th Street”:

And another lovely solo:

What a great way to spend a Sunday afternoon!  I drove by Campbell’s birth place on my drive home:

I read a couple of quite strange and different books this week.  The first was “When We Were Birds” by Ayanna Lloyd Banwo, a writer from Trinidad and Tobago who is now based in Norwich, England.  The writing is in the local Trinidadian dialect and takes a bit of getting used to.  Here’s the summary:

“In the old house on a hill, where the city meets the rainforest, Yejide’s mother is dying. She is leaving behind a legacy that now passes to Yejide: one St Bernard woman in every generation has the power to shepherd the city’s souls into the afterlife. But after years of suffering her mother’s neglect and bitterness, Yejide is looking for a way out.
 
Raised in the countryside by a devout Rastafarian mother, Darwin has always abided by the religious commandment not to interact with death. He has never been to a funeral, much less seen a dead body. But when the only job he can find is grave digging, he must betray the life his mother built for him in order to provide for them both. Newly shorn of his dreadlocks and his past, and determined to prove himself, Darwin finds himself adrift in a city electric with possibility and danger.
 
Yejide and Darwin will meet inside the gates of Fidelis, an ancient and sprawling cemetery, where the dead lie uneasy in their graves and a reckoning with fate beckons them both.”

Quite a different read but not something I would recommend.

My second book was “Tanqueray” by Brandon Stanton.  He writes a regular blog titled “Humans of New York” that chronicles the various interesting characters he comes across during his travels in New York city.  He met Tanqueray on the street one day and discovered her to be a hugely interesting character, now in her late seventies.  The two met regularly and Stanton captured stories of Tanqueray’s life.  That’s a stage name she had as a burlesque dancer in the 70s and 80s.

This was a crazy journey through a wild world.  A fun and very quick read for anyone not easily offended.

I enjoyed this video featuring one of my favourite songs, “Simple Man.”  A guitar player is doing a show in a park in Saratoga, FL and convinces a passerby to sing with him.  Very good job!

This Derek Trucks interview by Rick Beato was a bit of a revelation.  I’ve seen him perform 5 times now, and never heard him utter a word on stage.  Here he is quite garrulous and happy to share all kinds of interesting information.

I mentioned Tommy Malone earlier.  Here are a couple of my favourites:

Dawes released an excellent new album this week – they have such an interesting sound – modern but with all kinds of 70s references:

Coexist with kindness and compassion for all!