Week in Review – October 31, 2021

“Careful with that finger!”

We flew back from San Francisco to Dallas on Tuesday afternoon, unpacked, did some laundry, re-packed and started the drive to Austin on Wednesday morning.  I always enjoy looking out at the cloud formations on daytime flights.

The new VW Atlas performed very well on the drive – very comfy and smooth and with all the modern electronics that Penelope is lacking.  We met the Ogans for tacos at Nixta before checking into the hotel.  This is a place that I had been hoping to try for a while, and it was excellent.  Very creative and tasty tacos and tostadas.  It was a gorgeous day and we enjoyed the garden patio setting very much.  I had a beet tartare tostada that had some kind of whipped avocado base – highly recommended.

After hotel check-in, we had a few hours until dinner at Justine’s.  We found a couple of new cocktail establishments.  Higher Ground was just a few hundred yards from the hotel, and had great drinks and snacks – all cleverly named after the seven deadly sins.

Our next stop was at the Firehouse lounge.  This is a classic speakeasy hidden behind a sliding bookcase in the lobby of a hostel.  We enjoyed this stop a lot, with Diana and Anne very impressed that the bartender made them Old Cubans without any help on ingredients or proportions.

We sat on the patio at Justine’s and enjoyed a terrific evening.  Denny loved the ambiance and the food.  He and I both had a special clam dish with chorizo and frites.  What did Diana have?  Any guesses?  Yes – her first steak tartare of the trip.

Both Diana and I had work most of the day on Thursday and so Denny and Anne were on their own.  I ran into them (almost) on my drive to the office as they were scootering down Barton Springs.  I joined them for breakfast at Biscuits and Groovy – a very good food truck that even serves French press coffee.

We all met up for dinner at Peche before the concert at Austin City Limits.  What did Diana have here?  You are correct – her second steak tartare.  “But they’re all so good and so different from each other.”

We loved everything about the concert.  Three terrific artists/band were inducted into the Austin City Limits Hall of Fame.  We had excellent seats and plenty of room.  I’m going to share the pictures in order with the setlist from the evening.

Set list:

Alejandro Escovedo (inducted by Lenny Kaye)

1. “Algo Azul” (with Alex Ruiz and Lenny Kaye)

2. “Sally Was a Cop” (with John Doe, Alex Ruiz and Lenny Kaye)

3. “Put You Down”

Alejandro’s set was my favourite of the night – such a variety of musical styles and excellent song writing.  A highlight was him introducing his niece, Sheila E. from Prince’s band.  Now we know what the E stands for.

Lucinda Williams (inducted by Jason Isbell)

Certainly the most poignant moment of the evening.  We didn’t realize that Lucinda had suffered a stroke about a year ago – she can sing well but isn’t very mobile.  Isbell gave the best induction speech – highlighting the amazing lyrics of her songs.

1. “I Envy the Wind” (performed by Jason Isbell)

2. “Crescent City” (with Rosanne Cash)

3. “Changed the Locks” (with Margo Price)

Wilco (inducted by the lovely Rosanne Cash)

1. “A Shot in the Arm”

2. “Sky Blue Sky” (performed by Bill Callahan)

3. “One Sunday Morning” (performed by Terry Allen)

4. “Jesus Etc.” (with Michelle Zauner)

5. “California Stars” (grand finale with almost all performers)

If you look very closely in the bottom right corner you can catch sight of my grey hair.  It was about this time 2 years ago that I tried to cut off the tip of my finger in the J.W. Marriott door.  McD had me on a very close watch.  We introduced Denny and Anne to Velvet Taco for a late night snack – the chicken tikka tacos were a perfect end to a great and very unique evening.

The Ogans flew back to New Orleans on Friday morning, and so we had the day to ourselves.  We started out with a good long run along the river – that we seriously payed for over the next few days – not sure why our legs hurt so much.  I made a lunch reservation at June’s and teased D by asking her where she would like to pick for lunch  – she ultimately got to June’s and wondered if we could get a reservation 🙂  It was another lovely afternoon and we were able to sit out on the patio.  What did Diana have for lunch?  Yes – the trifecta of steak tartare was completed.  I enjoyed some salt cod croquettes and delicious curried escargot.

It was time to move again.  We walked about a mile and a half over to South Lamar and had a coffee on the wonderful Opa! patio.  One of the places we really miss for Sunday mornings.

After coffee, I took Diana to the tiki bar that I had picked out for Denny (before he had to leave early).  Tiki Tatsu-Ya was amazing – we were really transported into another world with outstanding details.  It has only been open a few weeks and is doing quite well, even though it’s hidden away behind the Saxon Pub parking lot.  Denny really missed out.  We’re looking forward to trying some food on our next visit.

Each drink had a very fancy cup.  We did not like the Tiki version of a negroni in that scary shot glass at all – needs some work.  A totally unique experience again.  The menu itself was very impressive.

After Tiki, I gave D the option of TG BAD (two guitars, bass, and drums) at the Saxon pub or an earlier than planned dinner at the Odd Duck.  She decided the Odd Duck couldn’t wait.  Wise move.

The Odd Duck and Opa! are probably the two places we miss the most in Austin.  The menu is always changing, so creative, and there’s no other place that mixes together so many flavours and textures so well.

We started with ceviche, quesadilla, and quail.  All fantastic.  Still a little hungry, we finished up with the scallops – perfectly cooked.  We really love this restaurant.

What an excellent day wandering around Austin and enjoying our favourite places!

 

 

Saturday started with a walk (a run was out of the question with our sore muscles) along the river.  Then we visited our last old favourite, El Alma, for their excellent brunch.  Eggs Benedict are probably not a great option before a four hour drive – that hollandaise sauce put me in a very sleepy state.  The Atlas made easy work of the drive back home – I think we’re going to get along just fine.

Finn came over for “football food” on Sunday after work.  I had suggested wings to D and she did a great job of cooking them for the first time.  The Cowboys didn’t play until the evening and were going with the backup quarterback, Cooper Rush.  We were all quite nervous, but they ended up being able to eke out a win to bring their record to 6-1 – best in decades.

We had planned to distribute Halloween candy until the game started at 7:30.  Business was light with I would guess a total of 30 kids or less.  Here are Ben and Lilly dressed up and ready to go in California.  And then Campbell and Molly are a bit scarier in San Diego.

I was too busy to get any decent reading done this week, and we’ve talked a lot about music already, so stay safe and kind!

 

Week in Review – October 3rd, 2021

“Cowboys Win – twice in one week”

After many meetings in Mexico on Monday, we retired to an excellent Argentinian steakhouse for dinner, and to watch the Cowboys destroying the Eagles.  Damon was the only Eagles fan in the group and it was hard not to feel badly for him.  This picture shows the fancy disinfecting unit in front of the restaurant – only Eagles fans had to walk through it 🙂

I thoroughly enjoyed the overall meal and experience.  The shrimp empanada appetizer (served in a burlap sack) was a great start.  My dry aged chorizo steak was a wonderful way to continue.  I’ve never had such a large table side menu before.  That’s Norma (my LATAM CIO) and Francisco (LATAM COO) in the picture.

They had the most creative dessert menu presentation that I’ve seen:

The flight back on Tuesday evening was very smooth.  Except for Blair.  He was catching a flight from Dallas to Austin, circled for an hour in thunder storms, and ultimately returned to Dallas.

I forgot to mention that I woke up on Tuesday to the news that Alicia had totaled her Jetta – not her fault.  A girl ran a red light and ploughed into the front left side of the engine.  Damon spent the night with us after the flight from Queretaro and agreed with D’s suggestion that we ship our Passat out to Alicia and look for a new car.

I took Finn for sushi after I picked him up from work on Thursday.  He loved the place I chose.  The salsa dancer (pictured here) was a great dish, and we picked out a couple of others that were equally delicious.  McD was surprised that I wouldn’t go for sushi with her but took Finn.  Can’t win!

The Passat was due for a service on Friday.  I took D over to drop it off and then we enjoyed a Taco Deli lunch.  Always so good.  I arranged for us to test drive the VW Atlas Cross Sport when we picked up the car on Saturday.  The first test with a V6 engine didn’t work out – under powered for the car.  The second drive with the turbo engine was better, but we’re not convinced yet.  The price point is quite attractive, so we’ll see what we end up doing for a second car.  Penelope is quite concerned.

Ollie made a trip down to San Jose on Saturday and accompanied Will on the patio of Rosie’s Irish Pub while he enjoyed a shepherd’s pie.  I’ve had that there before and it’s delicious.

 

 

 

I was texting my friend Tom in New York on Sunday to see what was new.  Was not expecting him to reply that he had triplet grand-children.  The guy in the middle, Michael, was only 1 lb. at birth and spent 4 months in the NICU- I’m sure he’ll catch up quickly.

Cowboys watching on Sunday was very pleasant.  A great win over the 3-0 undefeated Carolina Panthers to advance to 3-1 and top the NFC East division.  Finn watched with me and enjoyed D’s pigs in the blanket football snack.  There was a gecko on the patio trying to get into the action.

It’s always fun to text with Campbell and Tim during the games.  Especially when the Cowboys are doing well.

I really enjoyed S. A. Cosby’s “Razorblade Tears.”  Even better than his last, “Blacktop Wasteland”, with more complex and relatable characters and more vivid action.  Not for the feint of heart, but really well done.  Here’s the Amazon review:

“We couldn’t have loved Cosby’s last book, Blacktop Wasteland, more, so it’s gratifying to report that Razorblade Tears is just as good, if not better. Cosby has an uncanny knack for weaving righteous anger, heartfelt reflection, and even the inarticulate space between those two, into compulsively readable prose. Ike Randolph, a Black man fifteen years out of jail, meets his son’s father-in-law under the worst circumstances. Buddy Lee is also an ex-con, and his anguish at hearing that his son and his son-in-law—Ike’s son—have been gunned down in cold blood, is outpaced only by his guilt at how unaccepting he was of his son’s sexuality. But if these men missed the mark with their boys during their lifetimes, they will not let them down in death. The two horsemen of the apocalypse—driven by vengeance, race, and grief—make for a killer thriller. —Vannessa Cronin, Amazon Book Review”

I’m about 2/3rds of the way through “Away with the Penguins” by Hazel Prior.  This was a book that Heather gave Dad for his birthday, and I thought it looked really interesting.  It was described as being similar to “Eleanor Oliphant is Just Fine”, a book that Diana and I loved last year.

I’m really enjoying the book and the comparison is very accurate, with Veronica and Eleanor sharing many characteristics.  I like the first person narrative from Veronica’s point of view very much.

More to come next week when I finish up.

A new song from Nathaniel Rateliff is always a highlight.  Not my favourite but still a good song:

Here’s a great new song from Hayes Carll.  Not with his wife, but equally great:

And finally, I was looking for an album to play this week and came across an unopened copy of this gem.  I remember not loving the record when first released (hence the unopened album), but now I can’t imagine what I was thinking.  So many great songs.

Stay safe, kind, and patient!

Fortnight in Review – September 26, 2021

“Happy Birthday Marco!”

Denny and Anne celebrated their 27th wedding anniversary last Thursday, and Anne chose this picture to commemorate the occasion.  It was taken on a trip we took with them to Nashville in December 2017.  Classic Denny and Anne.

 

Finn has been treating us to several new and experimental dishes that he’s been adding to his repertoire.  First a novel breakfast toast where he cuts out the inside of the bread, replaces it with an egg, spinach, mushroom mixture, and then reattaches the bread with some melted cheese.  Hard to describe but delicious.  On Wednesday, he surprised us with a wonderful chicken curry – just a delicious mixture of flavours in the sauce and perfectly cooked chicken.  We were both very impressed.

Last Friday we flew to San Francisco to celebrate Marco’s 50th birthday.  Alicia drove us from the San Francisco airport to the San Jose airport since there were not any rental cars available at SFO – such a pain, but many thanks to Alicia.  It was dinner time when we arrived back in Pacifica to collect Clorinda to drive to Sonoma.  Amy had pizza ready to enable to a quick turnaround.    We arrived at the lovely farmhouse in Sonoma around 10pm.  Marco and his friend Jeff were enjoying the hot tub when we pulled up.  He was quite surprised to see us and particularly his Mom.  Julie had rented the house and hadn’t told him who was coming to spend the weekend.

We hung out for a while on the lovely porch and then called it a night.  Coffee the next morning was challenging – the high-tech, automated house and equipment were almost too much for us.  Diana finally rebooted the fancy coffee maker and we were in business.

The rest of the day was very relaxing, just hanging out by the pool, reading, chatting, and playing ping pong.  At one point, Clorinda headed for the ping pong table at high speed and really enjoyed a game.

The third picture above is Marco modeling our gift.  Will suggested hybrid shorts (both swim and regular wear) that change pattern when wet.  Here Marco has dipped the bottoms in the water to get a “marlin cuff” pattern.

Adamo and the boys showed up in the afternoon and enjoyed all the facilities.  The tree swing out back was a big hit.

Giancarlo arrived in time for dinner, only living 20 minutes or so away from the Sonoma farmhouse.

Dinner was again technically challenging – we couldn’t get the fancy pellet smoker to work well.  McD and I muscled through and were able to do a decent job of barbequing/broiling dinner for the crew.  Birthday cake was served after dinner – I climbed up on the step ladder to get the group shot.

This was one of the after dinner games we enjoyed.  I laughed because Finn is someone that absolutely knows the answer to that question.  Another game was a combination of Pictionary and the Telephone Game called Telestrations – highly recommended.   That was a big hit with the group.

Gianluca was the only one awake when we ventured into the main house on Sunday morning.  He walked down to the French patisserie with us, we enjoyed breakfast (Croque Madame for me), and brought back a selection of pastries and quiches for the gang.  I couldn’t resist taking a picture of this T-Rex enjoying a Trump snack in a yard we passed.

Then it was time to drive back down to Pacifica and relax for the evening before flying back to Dallas on Monday afternoon.

Diana treated me to dinner the next Saturday night since I was headed to Mexico for a few days on Sunday afternoon.  We decided to Uber to C.T. Provisions in downtown McKinney.  The driver told us the streets were closed off for Oktoberfest.  This was not something we hadn’t realized, although I was wearing an Oktoberfest t-shirt that Finn had brought me from Market Street, with the dates on front.  Street blockage didn’t cause us too much trouble and provided some fun entertainment.

I had mentioned to Mum and Dad that I was hoping they would have a stuffed quail on the new Autumn menu – and wouldn’t you know it, they had a delicious dish on there.  The overall new menu was filled with things that are right up our alleys.  Mussels, octopus, pork belly – all great.  Uber back home was a bit more work, but not to huge a hassle.

 

I caught my flight to Queretaro, Mexico on Sunday afternoon.  It’s only 2 hours from DFW and was a very smooth journey.  Turns out only a 30 minute drive from San Miguel de Allende, our destination for Denny’s 50th birthday.  I’m going to take Diana on my next trip and we’ll spend the weekend there before I start the week in Queretaro.  Our driver gave us a brief tour of downtown before delivering us to our hotel.

There are some very interesting stories about the origin of the aqueduct on the left.  Aqueduct Construction of the Queretaro aqueduct began in 1726 by Juan Antonio de Urrutia y Arana and was completed on October 19, 1738. The 1,280-meter (4,200-foot) aqueduct transported water gathered from various springs to fountains within the city’s convents and plazas.  Several different tales are told about why Juan Antonio was compelled to build this – and they all include a lady that he was interested in and wanted to provide safe water to, the difference being which lady.

We hung out at the hotel for dinner and Sunday night football watching.  These are my traveling companions Blair and Damon exchanging views on the game.

 

I read “Lake Success” by Gary Shteyngart in a couple of days early this week.  It’s a quick and easy read with a constant oscillation from quirky humour to truly sad situations.  The challenge is that the main characters really do come across too much like caricatures, and the main plot of Barry Cohen, uber rich hedge fund dude, abandoning everything to cross the country on a Greyhound bus, just a bit too far fetched.  The book made all the big top 10 lists when published in 2018, and I think part of that was driven by the back drop of the Trump election and how that features prominently in this tale.  I did learn a lot about very expensive watches – Barry’s passion.  Here’s the Amazon review:

“An Amazon Best Book of September 2018:: By most measures, Barry Cohen has achieved the American Dream. He manages a hedge fund with $2.4 billion in assets. He lives in Tribeca and has a beautiful wife. He even has a case full of extremely expensive watches. He appears, at least on the surface, to be a highly unlikely candidate for a cross-country journey to find himself. But when we first meet Barry, he is stressed out and unhappy, and he is bleeding because his wife recently attacked him. Soon we learn that there is more imperfection in his life: his son is autistic and an SEC investigation is hanging over his head. So when Barry gets on a Greyhound and tries to leave it all behind (naively seeking out a long lost college girlfriend), we understand the allure he finds in busing himself into the unknown. There is humor in this novel, much of it recognizably Shteyngartian; there is also a dark line running across this story like a line drawn across a map. Shteyngart traces that line, setting his story in the summer of 2016. As Barry meets “real” Americans—i.e. the other 99.9%– they help to fill in the parts of Barry that are missing. Some readers will feel for Barry’s plight, some won’t. It was Shteyngart’s incisive observations about how we view ourselves and our country that drew me in. There are many different American Dreams out there. But are dreams real?”

My second book was “What’s Mine and Ours” by Naima Coster.  It’s been a week or so since I read this book, and I couldn’t remember the plot or characters without some internet research – probably tells you this was not very exciting or memorable to me.  I did enjoy the read but it certainly didn’t have too much to embed itself in my memory.  Here’s the summary review:

“From the author of Halsey Street, a sweeping novel of legacy, identity, the American family, and the ways that race affects even our most intimate relationships. 

A community in the Piedmont of North Carolina rises in outrage as a county initiative draws students from the largely Black east side of town into predominantly White high schools on the west. For two students, Gee and Noelle, the integration sets off a chain of events that will tie their two families together in unexpected ways over the span of the next 20 years. On one side of the integration debate is Jade, Gee’s steely, ambitious mother. In the aftermath of a harrowing loss, she is determined to give her son the tools he’ll need to survive in America as a sensitive, anxious, young Black man. On the other side is Noelle’s headstrong mother, Lacey May, a White woman who refuses to see her half-Latina daughters as anything but White. She strives to protect them as she couldn’t protect herself from the influence of their charming but unreliable father, Robbie. 

When Gee and Noelle join the school play meant to bridge the divide between new and old students, their paths collide, and their two seemingly disconnected families begin to form deeply knotted, messy ties that will shape the trajectory of their adult lives. And their mothers – each determined to see her child inherit a better life – will make choices that will haunt them for decades to come. 

As love is built and lost, and the past never too far behind, What’s Mine and Yours is an expansive, vibrant tapestry that moves between the years, from the foothills of North Carolina, to Atlanta, Los Angeles, and Paris. It explores the unique organism that is every family: what breaks them apart and how they come back together.”

I popped the CD of Jason Yates eponymous 2009 release into Penelope this week and remembered how much I had enjoyed this when it first came out.  Such understated but very catchy songs.  This one has been stuck in my ear for days:

I heard about Sandy Nelson on a drumming documentary that I enjoyed last week.  What a great sound:

Stay safe, patient and kind!

Week in Review – September 12, 2021

“Let’s Roll”

I took Finn to look at apartments on Wednesday.  He ended up liking the first place that we looked at, Hudson Ranch, the best.  It’s a smaller community, easy walking distance to his work, and about 2.5 miles from our home.  He was excited that his one bedroom comes with a washer and dryer.  Move in date is sometime around October 9th.  Here are some pictures of the model – looks pretty comfy.

Football was back on Thursday night, with the Cowboys kicking off the season against the defending Super Bowl champion Tampa Bay Buccaneers.  The Cowboys played amazingly well, ultimately loosing 31-29 to a last second field goal.  Had they made easy field goals that were missed earlier in the game, they would have pulled off a very impressive win.  It was fun to get back to texting with Tim and Campbell during the game.

I managed to convince Finn to get his second COVID shot on Friday afternoon.  There were no immediate reactions this time, although we had fun telling McD that he had fainted and taken down the CVS candy aisle.  He went to work on Saturday morning and made it until 1pm before the body aches were too much.  He’s back at work today (nice 6am Sunday start) and seemed to be feeling fine when I dropped him off.

Bob Schneider played an excellent show at the Kessler on Friday night.  He performed both an early and a late show, and so we were home at a reasonable hour after a concert in Oak Cliff for a change.  This was a good thing as my Saturday started at 7am with a Finn drop-off.

Schneider opened up the show with one of my favourites – “2002” from the “Lonelyland” album.  I think that’s his best album – it’s one of his early ones from 2001.

He really is a unique singer songwriter, having the ability to switch from deep and moving to ribald humour, sometimes in the same verse of a song.  His intra-song patter is just as entertaining as the music.  Janelle and Steve joined us and seemed to thoroughly enjoy the show.

We’ve been enjoying watching the US Open tennis, and particularly the new youngsters that have been doing so well.  There is clearly a new generation taking control of women’s tennis, with the amazing feat by Emma Raducanu of winning the final without dropping a set the entire tournament.  She was ranked 150th going in.

The 20th anniversary of 9/11 made Saturday quite somber.  My colleague was visiting his daughter in Baltimore and having a coffee by the harbor when this happened right at 8:46am – the time the first plane hit the World Trade Center.

I was talking to Finn about the events of 9/11.  He didn’t know about Todd Beamer from Los Gatos – the guy who said “Let’s Roll” on flight 93, before leading a small group that over-powered the terrorists, and preventing the flight making it to Washington, DC.  What a true hero.

I tried a new breakfast bake recipe on Sunday.  This one is very healthy and vegetarian with quinoa, mushrooms, onion, spinach, cottage cheese, sun-dried tomatoes and egg whites.  It turned out well but I think I would prefer some more egg and less quinoa.  There’s plenty left for Finn to have for his very early morning breakfasts this week.  We both ran 30 minutes early this morning and so were ready for breakfast when this came out of the oven.

I’ve read a couple of book since my last posting.  “A Spool of Blue Thread” by Anne Tyler is described this way in a review:

“The Whitshanks are one of those families that radiate an indefinable kind of specialness, but like all families, their stories reveal only part of the picture: Abby and Red and their four grown children have accumulated not only tender moments, laughter, and celebrations, but also jealousies, disappointments, and carefully guarded secrets.

From Red’s parents, newly arrived in Baltimore in the 1920s, to the grandchildren carrying the Whitshank legacy boisterously into the twenty-first century, here are four generations of lives unfolding in and around the sprawling, lovingly worn house that has always been their anchor.”

Tyler has rapidly become one of my very favourite authors after learning of her earlier this year, and this is a classic example of her work – wonderful characters and a beautiful talent for writing about the mundane and ordinary details of family life.  This one set against a backdrop of the home construction/remodeling business and the Depression.

My other read was “The Eternal Audience of One” by Remy Ngamije, a writer from Namibia.  The story follows Seraphin as he escapes Rwanda, then Namibia, and tries to make a life in Cape Town.  Here’s a summary from a review:

“Seraphin Turihamwe is a young man whose life is characterised by movement. After leaving Rwanda under duress and never feeling at rest in Namibia, which he believes is slow and boring, he finds himself fighting to fit in in Cape Town. So much about the city is designed to push people like him out. Through his interactions with a few reluctant mentors, loyal friends and the women he carries on relationships with, he explores and performs different parts of his identity while dealing with other issues of family, race, immigrant life and love.Seraphin and his pursuit and struggle for inner peace and identity effortlessly meld together geography, history and how one’s experience of a place can be perceived as a relatable journey. The themes of movement or displacement, life as an immigrant or refugee and the life of a black youth are neatly unpacked. His relationships with women become markers of the passing of time and lessons learnt and provide insight into who he is and who he wants to be. Whether he ever finds rest and truly comes to know himself is up to the reader to decide.”

I didn’t love this book but did enjoy learning something about life in Rwanda and Namibia.

I really enjoy the “Funky Friday” radio show on 91.7 KXT.  Here are a few great songs from last week:

The amazing Grupo Fantasma from Austin:

The amazing voice of Clinton Clegg fronting the nonet Commonheart:

The Kashmere Stage Band – check out the wonderful documentary about this fantastic high school band reuniting later in life.

The always great Etta James, with help from Steve Winwood:

And finally this classic from Jimmy Hughes:

These songs form the base of a playlist that I could listen to every day.

Stay safe and kind to everyone!

 

 

 

Trip to Scotland – August 2021

“Happy Birthday Dad”

The long ago booked trip to Scotland to celebrate Dad’s 85th birthday was starting to look like it might happen.  Last pre-trip thing to be accomplished was a COVID test.  The ones we took 3 full days ahead of our flight at Walgreens didn’t come back in the 48 hours promised, and so we made a trip to DFW airport for a very expensive 1 hour test.  That in hand, we had everything necessary to catch our flight on Saturday afternoon.

The airport was eerily quiet – we were the only folks at all in terminal D security – very unusual.  Even Heathrow was relatively quiet and a pretty painless experience.  We’re always impressed with the service on the 1 hour flight from London to Glasgow – drinks, full meal, coffee or tea, with no fuss or rush.  If only all flights were like those ones.  Diana captured the view from the window as we came in to land in Glasgow.  That’s the river Clyde in the second picture – where so many famous ships were built in years past.

No security checks at all in Glasgow – all that was to happen in London we supposed.  After all the trouble of getting tests and filling out forms, nobody asked to see them.  Oh well, we must look trustworthy.  A short taxi ride and we were in Stewarton and admiring Dad’s garden.  Whew!  We made it.

A walk before dinner seemed like a good idea.  I took Diana out into the country – up the “Old Farm Road” towards Willie Kennedy’s farm.  She enjoyed chatting with the cows – not something we get to do out for a walk in McKinney.

A couple of minutes after these pictures, it started to rain quite heavily and we were soaked through on return to Merrick View.   Diana did learn a new technique from my Mum – stuff your wet running shoes with newspaper to accelerate the drying.  I’m happy to report that the weather for the rest of our visit was very good overall.

Monday began with a run around Stewarton – I think we covered most of the highlights including Main Street, Avenue Square and a couple of different sections of park.  In the evening we walked around the neighborhood – checking out some of the new developments since we last visited, and admiring the sunset behind Ravenscraig castle.

On Tuesday we tried out a new running destination – Elspeth had mentioned the new Lainshaw Woods trail along the Annick River was very nice.  This was indeed a great running spot with nice views and a good path.  Quite different than what the area was like when I grew up – quite seedy indeed.  The trail follows the river for several miles and is really well done.  Some calves had escaped their field and were enjoying the river also.

After that morning exercise we drove down to Culzean castle with a stop in Dunure on the way.  Our attempt to show Diana the Electric Brae – an optical illusion where the road appears to be sloping in one direction but is really going in the other  – was foiled by a ball that had seen much better days (maybe 40 years ago).  Dunure is a very picturesque fishing village.

 

The grounds at Culzean castle are beautifully maintained by the National Trust.  We started with lunch at the café onsite, then wandered down to the main castle, got the view from the beach, and finished up in the Walled Garden admiring the flowers, vegetables and huge tomatoes in the vast greenhouses.

To celebrate Scotland’s “Year of coasts and waters”, there were a number of Willow creatures staged around the grounds.  We found quite a few of them:

Here’s a picture of Will on the lawn in front of Culzean castle from a bit over 30 years ago:

Mum and Dad had a good story about babysitting Will in Los Gatos.  Apparently he was working on a project about barn owls.  Mum can still picture Dad sitting on the floor of a bookstore gathering references.  The project was nicely bound and sent off to school on the due date.  When asked about it that evening, Will said they didn’t ask for it and he still had it – in a crumpled up ball in his backpack.  Easy solution – Granny will iron it for you.

What a lovely afternoon exploring Culzean.  We made the short drive down to show Diana the Turnberry hotel and golf course, now part of the unmentionable organization.

Lainshaw Woods was again the site of our morning run on Wednesday.  This time I stopped to read a sign that identified the butterfly that we had photographed on the “butterfly plant” at the bottom of Dad’s back garden.

We made the short walk down to Bowes Rigg for dinner at the Millhouse, and were quite impressed with the food.  My Bloody Mary prawn starter and Steak and Ale pie were both delicious.  Diana’s pate with brioche bread and chutney was excellent.  We did get some entertainment from Dad having to ask for a finger bowl to clean up after the prawns.

Thursday started with the now standard Lainshaw Woods trot.  Then we made a jaunt over to Largs where we encountered Magnus the Viking, before enjoying fish and chips and an ice cream at Nardini’s – a classic art deco restaurant that’s been there forever.

Isn’t it crazy to think that Magnus commemorates the 750th anniversary of the Battle of Largs in 1263, the last attempted Viking raid on Scotland?

We chose well on the ice cream – McD narrowed it down to two and I chose the fudge one – little pieces of really good fudge in there.  Yum!

We had to wait on a reservation at Nardini’s and so had a nice wander along the front.  This sign about the Vanduara house being used by Lord Mountbatten during World War II to plot the Normandy invasions was very interesting.

Mum had mentioned a pretty view on the drive back from Largs at a spot called Haylie Brae.  We were lucky to find the spot (not marked and off a narrow, twisty road) and the view was indeed worth the effort.

I forgot to talk about my experience filling up with petrol prior to finding Haylie Brae.  There was no credit card reader on the pump and so I went inside to ask to “fill up on pump 10.”  The guy looked at me strangely.  “I don’t see any charge on number 10.”  “Right, I’d like to fill up,” I said, offering my credit card.  “Oh no, go ahead and fill up and then come in to pay.”  “Ah, it’s on the honour system.”  “Aye, that’s right.”  The little different things that trip you up.

Mum made delicious beef olives for dinner – a creative dish that I had completely forgotten about.

I managed a solid 20 minutes of running in the Woods on Friday, before we made the short drive to the Laird’s Table, just outside Fenwick.  This is a small restaurant beside a fly fishing loch on Craufurdland estate.  I enjoyed watching the fisherman passing a happy Friday afternoon doing what they love.

The food here was creative and very good.  My appetizer of Laird’s Wellington was a highlight – pork sausage and Stornoway black pudding in pastry with a delicious salad.  I should mention that I enjoyed Stornoway black pudding, eggs, haggis, and sausage every morning for breakfast – Mum really likes to spoil me.

We skipped our run on Saturday and instead drove into Glasgow to get our U.S. reentry COVID tests.  This was a very efficient and well organized process and we just beat Elspeth and David back to Stewarton.  Heather and Michael arrived later in the afternoon and we gave Dad his presents and cake.  It was such a shame that Struan and Emily could join us – both getting over the virus.  The living room had been “Bramble proofed” on Friday night, and we were able to measure and see that Diana was in fact a bit taller than Geoffrey the giraffe.

Mum had arranged a birthday dinner at Highgrove House and we piled into a couple of cars and made the drive over.  This restaurant has a lovely view and we took advantage to capture pictures of each couple as the sunset progressed.

Dinner was excellent – I enjoyed chicken liver pate and sole meuniere.  Diana said that the mussels she had were perhaps the best she’s tasted.  Here are some more pictures from the 85th celebration:

Elspeth, David and Bramble spent the night in a local hotel, and joined us again for most of the day on Sunday.  We got to take Bramble for a run through Lainshaw Woods – risking off the leash as we were assured she was very good that way.  She was mostly fine with only a minor incident when she wanted to join right in with another very similar dog who was waiting for her owner to throw a tennis ball.  “But why can’t I play too?”  Poor bramble was quite tired out by the time McD had her running up the final set of stairs.

Diana tried out the old school clothes drying technique with her running suit.  Not something you see much of around Texas cities.

 

 

 

Monday was a relaxing final day, and then it was off to Glasgow airport on Tuesday morning, arriving back home in McKinney on Tuesday evening.  Travel was all very smooth and uneventful.  What a lovely time with my family.  Weekly FaceTime calls are great, but no substitute for being together.

Fortnight in Review – August 15, 2021

“Back and Forth”

Whew!  That was a busy couple of weeks, and I didn’t do anywhere as much traveling as McD.  I didn’t keep great notes and so I’m going to break with tradition and go in somewhat of a reverse chronological order.

We spent the weekend with four other couples at something called the “Celebrity Dream Estate” in Rancho Santa Fe, CA.  This was a very fancy place and one of the few to be found that had five bedrooms and bathrooms.  Rancho is about 30 minutes north of San Diego and is located in the hills above the Pacific Ocean.  Here are some pictures of the place:

We arrived on Friday afternoon, picked up supplies, and then spent a pleasant evening catching up with everyone.  Saturday began with a run and walk for D and me, while most of the group went hiking by the coast.  The roads were quite hilly and narrow – not completely ideal for running – but a good test for us.  The first test was how to get out of the coded gate from the inside without the weight of a car on the sensor pad.  We managed to squeeze through and later learned of a code box hidden on a fence post.  The driveway is very long.

We did pass Diana’s new estate on our run – just missing a “g”.

Saturday afternoon was spent relaxing by the pool, followed by a lovely dinner at “Pamplemousse” – a highly recommended local restaurant in Solana Beach.  I really enjoyed my Duo of Game – a Venison Chop Au Poivre and Lemon Thyme Marinated Quail.  This was the waiter’s number one recommendation and I’m glad I followed his lead.

Sunday was my favourite day of  the trip.  We met Campbell and Molly for lunch at a great Mexican restaurant and then walked across to Cardiff State beach, timing it just perfectly so that the awning and chairs were fully set up by the advance party.  Diana was very adventurous with jumping the waves – most of which were several feet taller than her.  I’m glad I joined to provide a tiny bit of supervision.  Campbell and Molly came back to the house and played games with the crew, while Merry Lee enjoyed watching Campbell’s mannerisms that she thought were doubles of mine.

A really good trip and I know Diana enjoyed catching up with her girlfriends.

This was her second trip out to California in two weeks.  She took her Mom back home last week.  Clorinda was happy to get back to her grandkids.

Alicia flew back last Thursday and they were able to visit her new University (also Clorinda’s alma mater).

The weather has become quite boisterous as I’m tying this – lots of thunder and the torrential rain that I’ve only experienced in Texas.  My new 6 inch gutters in the back patio are passing this test with flying colours – no overspill at all – much better than the old 4 inch variety.  Diana is not going to enjoy her drive to the dentist much though.

While Clorinda was with us for a couple of months, Caroline had made a project of organizing her clothes.  Diana enjoyed making some videos of her Mom telling stories about the dresses, when she made them, and where she wore them.  And then the fun started as Diana decided to model a couple of her favourites.

Finn started work earlier in the week in the produce department at Market Street (a high end grocery store 2 miles from our home).  He’s enjoying it and seems to be doing well in the eyes of his managers.

After I dropped him one morning, I finally tried the Del Sur Taco counter that’s inside a Shell station across from Market Street.  Folks rave about their breakfast tacos, and they were very good.  Looking forward to another visit soon.  I know Denny would like all the Mexican wrestling masks.

I’m loving Mark Ronson’s Apple TV+ series “Watch the Sound”.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p09qsnkw

The episode on synthesizers had a great piece on a BBC engineer, Delia Derbyshire, who came up with the original Dr. Who theme song using a series of oscilloscopes and wave shapers.  Each episode so far has been very interesting and educational.

Here’s a new song from saxophonist Chris Potter with the fantastic James Francies on keyboards and bass pedals:

I watched a film called “You’re Not You” sometime over the last fortnight and really enjoyed it.  Hilary Swank’s character (and I’m really not usually a fan) is a classical pianist who has ALS.  The story revolves around her relationship with the brash college student, hired as a caregiver, who ends up being wonderful for her.  I enjoyed seeing some of the Houston musical hotspots like the sister to Austin’s wonderful Continental Club.

I read “Clever Girl” by Tessa Hadley over the last week or so.  Having really enjoyed a short story from Hadley in the New Yorker, I thought I would give this a try.

Here’s a synopsis review:

“Clever Girl is an indelible story of one woman’s life, unfolded in a series of beautifully sculpted episodes that illuminate an era, moving from the 1960s to today, from one of Britain’s leading literary lights—Tessa Hadley—the author of the New York Times Notable Books Married Love and The London Train.

Like Alice Munro and Colm Tóibin, Tessa Hadley brilliantly captures the beauty, innocence, and irony of ordinary lives—an ability to transform the mundane into the sublime that elevates domestic fiction to literary art.”

My review would not be as effusive.  The first half was a real struggle, and I got some enjoyment from the second half.  Just not my thing – too much hippie commune stuff.  I only enjoyed the last few chapters when the “Clever Girl” reaches my age.

Stay safe, kind and sensible in the increasingly nutty environment!

 

 

 

 

 

Week in Review – August 1, 2021

“Bye Grammie, Come Back Anytime”

Finn and I picked up Alicia from the airport on Monday.  We stopped at the Blue Goose in Grapevine on the way home.  I enjoyed my usual sour cream chicken enchiladas and Finn had combination fajitas.  Alicia was good and had some kind of healthy salad.  Oh, almost forgot – we tried something new – the goose eggs appetizer, jalapenos stuffed with shredded chicken and cheese.  They were delicious and pleasantly spicy.  Let’s have those again soon.

Grammie was very happy to have Alicia back in McKinney.

We watched the Olympics in the evening – situation normal during Grammie’s visit.  She became such a sports nut.  I was amazed at the British synchronized diving team – Tom Daly and Matty Lee.  They looked like a single diver from the side angle – just excellent and not surprising that they won the gold medal.

Alicia took Finn on an outing to bowl at Pinstack on Tuesday – it’s nice for him to have someone around to hang out with during the day when we’re working.  Alicia’s friend had given them a bunch of tokens that Finn deployed to win three stuffies from the claw game that I thought never allowed anyone to win – a hidden talent.

Wednesday brought a couple of pieces of good news – Finn passed his final interview for the job he wants (just the background check and orientation now), and travel restrictions to the UK eased for vaccinated US travelers – no quarantine required now.  Hoping that holds until our visit.

The Olympic highlight was Finke’s acceleration in the final lap of the 1500 meter freestyle swim to go from 5th place to 1st.  My favourite Olympic moment so far.

We attended the funeral service for Stanley John Bassett via livestream on Wednesday night.  A really meaningful service and we were so glad to be able to participate from so far away.  Vilma and their two daughters did a lovely job eulogizing Stan.  They played this song as folks were leaving the chapel – hadn’t heard it in so many years.  I remember when it was popular as the theme song to the Watership Down movie.

Alicia joined us for a show at the Kessler on Thursday night while Finn kept Clorinda company watching the Olympic gymnastics finals.  We kept with our pre-concert ritual of dinner at Nova.  Diana burger, Thai cauliflower with noodles for me, and Moroccan chicken for Alicia – quite the eclectic international mix.

Robert Ellis is a quite different performer who was based in Austin until recently (moved to Fort Worth, and I’m sure because Austin is becoming way too expensive for musicians.)  He alternates between ironically funny, and very poignant songs on guitar and piano.  Here’s one of his more popular songs – an ode to the sparkling water Topo Chico:

Ellis had the first three songs organized and then relied on audience requests.  One entertaining moment occurred when someone requested “Two Cans of Paint.”  “I don’t remember the guitar part to that.”  “I can play it,” from an audience member.  “Who is that?”  “It’s Stacy.”  “My friend Stacy – come on down and play a song for us.”  Apparently Ellis had met Stacy on his last visit to the Kessler.  She played a beautiful song.

Here’s another song from Ellis, “When You’re Away”:

The lineup of talent in the next month or so at the Kessler is very impressive.  I think musicians really love playing there.

Diana traveled back to California with Clorinda on Saturday.  She’ll stay for a week and get everything organized with new local doctors.  I’m “supervising” Finn and Alicia solo now.  I took a break from the Olympics on Saturday night and finished a movie I started a few weeks ago.  “Our Friend,” starring Casey Affleck, Dakota Johnson, and Jason Segel, is not an uplifting, positive movie but the acting is first class.

The “kids” were quickly on board when I suggested Velvet Taco for lunch on Sunday.  I’m not sure if it moved since Brent and I visited last, prior to auditioning speakers at Audio Concepts, but it wasn’t exactly where I remembered.  I tortured Finn and Alicia with a visit to Interrabang books after lunch – and it had certainly moved – all the way to Lovers Lane and the other side of the tollway.  The new store is smaller and I couldn’t find anything that caught my fancy at all.  On prior visits I’ve come away with three or four new books.  Maybe I just wasn’t in the right mood.

There was another baking adventure on Sunday evening.  Lemon and blueberry cookies with cream cheese frosting was the product this time.  The teamwork was solid and Clorinda is working on convincing Alicia to bring some when she returns to California later this week.

Will had his car at the track again over the weekend and was excited to share some pictures of the new trim – not exactly sure what’s new but it does look very fancy.

There’s a new music technology show out on Apple TV.  Mark Ronson hosts a show called “Watch the Sound”, and I’ve been enjoying it with my elliptical workouts.  The episode on reverb was fascinating.  I had just read in my Robbie Robertson autobiography (more below) about the fantastic reverb available from the concrete chambers underneath the Capitol records recording studios in Los Angeles, and sure enough that was one of the places Ronson visited.  That and a massive, abandoned diesel tank in Scotland that is rumored to have the longest reverb in the world.

“Testimony”, Robbie Robertson’s autobiography has been my companion this week.  What a fascinating account from an amazing musician who had a front seat to so many musical highlights – backing up Bob Dylan when he went electric, and witnessing Jimi Hendrix first shows in New York to name just a couple.  I remember first watching “The Last Waltz”, Scorsese’s movie about The Band’s farewell concert, in university and being completely amazed at the level of musicianship.  The book is over 500 pages long and I haven’t quite finished yet.

On first meeting Levon Helm, one of my very favourite musicians:

“In the center of it all was a young beam of light on drums.  Teeth gleaming, laughing, bleached hair glowing, whole body shaking, drumsticks twirling, pushing those red sparkle drums with a hawk painted on the bass drum like a white tornado.  It was the first time I saw Levon Helm, and I’d never seen anything like it.”

Watching Levon dance across the front of the main stage at the New Orleans jazzfest, a few weeks before he died, is one of my best musical memories.

Encountering Jerry Lee Lewis:

“As we headed back to Sun Records for Fred’s appointment, I was flushed with excitement.  Inside I took a seat in a little lobby area while Fred was escorted to an office.  The pictures of legendary Sun records artists hanging up and down the hallway made me feel I was stepping into a rock ‘n roll cathedral.  A man came out of the recording studio, and as the door swung I thought I saw Jerry Lee Lewis sitting at the piano.  Must be imagining it, I thought, but the door to the control room opened and from the speakers I heard that voice and that piano – Jerry himself.  So real I could barely stand it.”

Weird encounters:

“Jack, the owner of the Skyline Lounge, was none other than Jack Rubenstein – otherwise known as Jack Ruby.  The man who had hired us only a few months before to play his weird, burned-out Skyline Lounge in Fort Worth, Texas, had shot and killed the assassin of President Kennedy.”

What sounds like a wonderful evening of music:

“On one of our nights off, Levon and I, along with Connie and Mama Kosh, drove a couple of hours to the Buffalo Auditorium to catch Otis Redding; Jerry Butler, with Curtis Mayfield and the Impressions; and Junior Walker and the All Stars.

Otis was astounding; that voice slayed me.  He could be such an exciting performer, but it was the ballads that completely took me away, songs like “These Arms of Mine.””

My favourite paragraph so far:

“Upstairs in the workroom across from my bedroom on Larsen Lane, I sat with a little typewriter, a pen and legal pad, and a Martin D-28 that said NAZARETH, PENNSYLVANIA on the label inside the sound hole.  I revisited memories and characters from my southern exposure and put them into a Luis Bunuel surreal setting.  One of the themes that really stuck with me from Bunuel’s films, like Viridiana, was the impossibility of sainthood – no good deed goes unpunished.  I wrote “The Weight” in one sitting that night.”

Imagine – that’s where those classic lines started – looking into a Martin guitar sound hole:

I pulled in to Nazareth
Was feeling ’bout half past dead

I just need some place
Where I can lay my head
“Hey, mister, can you tell me
Where a man might find a bed?”
He just grinned and shook my hand
And “No” was all he said”

There’s been a lot of music chatter already, so I’ll just share a couple of songs I’m enjoying from my Spotify Discover Weekly playlist.

The guitar intro had me hooked right away:

Love the laid back, J.J. Cale type feel:

Stay safe and kind!

 

 

Week in Review – July 18, 2021

“A Guys Happy Hour and Dinner and a concert in the same week!”

I got some work done on Monday between coffee with Finn at Duino, and going to Clorinda’s appointment with the retina specialist in the afternoon.  Later, I went to my first Happy Hour with some guys in a while.  Robbie and Fred from work met me at Union Bear and we really enjoyed catching up for a couple of hours.

“Are you drinking your water?”

Nothing much to report from Tuesday through Thursday.  We shared duties taking Clorinda to appointments and were both pretty busy with work.  I have a quarterly Board of Directors meeting in a  couple of weeks, and it’s always busy getting everything ready for that.

Diana followed me down to Auto Hans early Friday to drop off Penelope for an oil change.  Now she has new tires, new oil  and is getting a full detail tomorrow – so spoiled and pampered.

On Friday evening, Finn cooked and hung out with Clorinda so that we could attend a concert at the Kessler.  Mike Zito and his Big Band with opener Indigenous.  We bought tickets at the last minute and so didn’t have a reserved table.  No worries, we got there early and claimed the prime high seats at the back beside the mixing desk.  That way Diana had a clear line of sight to the stage, and the sound is premium.

Seats claimed, we walked up to Nova for our typical light dinner before the show.  We sat at the bar and enjoyed three delicious appetizers – beets (my favourite), Brussel sprouts, and smoked salmon potato skins (McD’s favorite.)

We really enjoy the relaxed and welcoming feel of Nova.  The bar tender was convinced she knew me – thought she might have gone to high school with me – unlikely.  Upon investigation, we decided that the only place we could have met was at the Green Room in Deep Ellum, over 20 years ago.  Possible, but still unlikely.

I was looking forward to Indigenous.  They are a band formed of family members from the Sioux reservation in South Dakota.  Mato Nanji (Ma-TOE NON-gee) is the lead guitarist and singer.  I first listened to them in 2000, with the CD “Circle” one of my favourites that year.  I also saw them as part of the “Experience Hendrix” show at the Warfield in San Francisco, with Buddy Guy and Carlos Santana.  Here they are at the Kessler performing a John Lee Hooker cover, best known these days as the theme music for NCIS New Orleans:

And here’s a Hendrix cover that I enjoyed.  Isn’t that a beautiful looking guitar?

I wasn’t sure what to expect from Mike Zito.  He was in a band that I enjoyed, Royal Southern Brotherhood, with Cyril Neville.  His guitar playing was always great, but didn’t know if I would appreciate the vocals.  We were pleasantly surprised.  Here’s a Prince cover, not necessarily what you expect from a blues band:

Now a good example of Zito’s blues guitar:

That solo is from a new song, “Ressurection”, that I thought was a highlight of the set:

And I’ll finish up the concert sharing with a solo from the trumpet player (apparently a regular member of Jason Mraz’s band):

At Diana’s prompting, we had a nice chat with Jeff Liles, booking agent for the Kessler, about this appearance in the “Bring Music Home” book that raised money for “Save our Stages”, a fund raising effort to save independent music clubs that were closed at the height of the pandemic.  I really love that book and the thought and care that went into creating it.

Saturday started with a walk with McD – it didn’t seem too hot but we were both quite sweaty and tired when we finished – the humidity always gets you.  While limbered up, I finally was able to fix the aromatherapy unit for the steam shower – power reset required, and then took on the task of washing the big windows that look out to the pool from the family room.  My best job yet, with the secret being the drying technique with the squeegee.  Clorinda approved the work and is enjoying her clearer view of the pool, trees, and flowers.  Diana tackled the ever-returning weeds while I did that.  We both entered the afternoon with a feeling of accomplishment.

Amy spent the night, having had her fill of crashing on the couch at her kids’ apartment.  We ordered food from the Little Greek and enjoyed catching up – getting formal by eating our take out in the dining room.

Finn and I watched game 5 of the NBA Finals (Milwaukee Bucks vs. Phoenix Suns) with Clorinda after dinner.  It was a good game and she refused to go to bed after it finished at 10:30pm – thinking there was still something interesting to learn from the post game commentary.  We’ve created a sports fanatic.

On Sunday morning I watched the British Open golf while Diana and Amy went out for a run.  They both miss their running buddies.  Jordan Spieth tried hard but couldn’t keep up with the flawless final round play of Collin Morikawa.

I promised some quotes from “Saved by a Song” by Mary Gauthier – my book last week and my favourite of the year so far and by far:

From the introduction, or what Mary calls “Invitation”:

“I believe songs that heal come from a higher place.  They help us with the struggle of being human by letting us know we are not alone.  This is the greatest gift a song can give a songwriter and a songwriter can give the world.

Bruce Springsteen said, “Music is a repair shop, I’m basically a repair man.”  I love that.  Songs have the power to repair hearts and souls.

Saved by a song.”

From the chapter on the song “Drag Queens and Limousines”:

“Clarity comes from stories.  They help us make sense of our lives.  Witnessing other people’s lives through stories is a kind of medicine, and the magic is in getting the story emotionally honest.

Guy Clark once said, “We’re all pretty much living the same life just hitting the marks at different times.”  “Drag Queens in Limousines” showed me that I have no idea what’s going on inside a person’s heart, in that tender place that the poet Miller Williams, Lucinda’s father, described as, “Where the spirit meets the bone.”  Until I wrote this song and played it for people, I had no idea most everyone has felt like an outsider at some point in their life, but they have.

That outsider feeling is universal.”

On working on the amazing “Mercy Now”:

We hang in the balance

Dangle ‘tween hell and hallowed ground

Every single on of us could use some mercy now

Every single on of us could use some mercy now

I worked on it for the next three days, changing one word at a time, meditating on the meaning, letting the new words sit a while, and it was slow going.  I played it for a friend, a fellow songwriter, who encouraged me to be brave and play it on a side stage at a festival workshop we were going to share the next afternoon.  So, I wrote the words on a piece of hotel room stationery.  And in the afternoon on the last day of Canmore Folk Festival, August 2003, I taped those words onto the mic stand and played “Mercy Now” in front of an audience for the very first time.

I’ve played it on every stage at every show, every night, since.”

From the chapter on John Lennon’s “Mother”:

“St. Francis of Assisi said, “One who works with their hands is a laborer.  One who works with their hands and head is a craftsman.  One who works with their hands, their head and their heart is an artist.”

Finally, from the chapter on “Rifles and Rosary Beads” and writing about a songwriting camp that pairs songwriters with veterans to share their experiences:

“Our job as songwriters is to help turn the veterans’ stories into songs.  The songwriter brings decades of songwriting experience, the veteran brings their story.  Before I worked my first retreat, I assumed that asking a wounded soldier to open up to a songwriter would be a stretch.  I’d heard that silence is the soldier’s code; that those who have seen combat do not talk about it, those who talk about it have not seen it.  Coming out the other side is enough.”

“Before long, they start to tell me their story, little by slow.  I play a little music on my guitar, find a melody that matches what they’re saying.  The music helps open them up; a sympathetic melody is like a magnet that pulls their story out.  They feel seen and heard, which helps them feel safe.”

I’m about half way through “Dirt, Adventures in Lyon as a Chef in Training, Father, and Sleuth Looking for the Secret of French Cooking” by Bill Buford.

Here’s a summary review that captures the plot pretty well:

“What does it take to master French cooking? This is the question that drives Bill Buford to abandon his perfectly happy life in New York City and pack up and (with a wife and three-year-old twin sons in tow) move to Lyon, the so-called gastronomic capital of France. But what was meant to be six months in a new and very foreign city turns into a wild five-year digression from normal life, as Buford apprentices at Lyon’s best boulangerie, studies at a legendary culinary school, and cooks at a storied Michelin-starred restaurant, where he discovers the exacting (and incomprehensibly punishing) rigueur of the professional kitchen.

With his signature humor, sense of adventure, and masterful ability to bring an exotic and unknown world to life, Buford has written the definitive insider story of a city and its great culinary culture.”

Some samples of my favourite bits next week.

This has gone on for a while, and I’ve covered a lot of musical ground already, so I’ll share this excellent playlist that Amy Campagna sent me.  So many great songs on this – kudos to whoever created it.  Ahh, I see now that was Alex Harrouff.  I like the sound of that last name, picturing the pitch going up on the “ouff.”

Stay safe and kind to everyone!

Week in Review – July 4, 2021

“Long Live Rock”

Clorinda and I watched a great DVD (yes, we can still manage to play those) on Monday.  “Seymour: An Introduction” is about a concert pianist, who gives up a successful performance career to teach piano students.  The care Seymour shows for his students is really something.  Highly recommended watching.

Tuesday started with a pleasant swim.  I’m finding that swimming is significantly helping the pain where I had the screws put in my leg.  I had been considering having the screws removed, but if swimming is helping, then it’s likely scar tissue and not the screws causing the pain.  Going to have to start swimming a few times a week.

After my swim, I took Clorinda for coffee at Duino.  This is always a great time to enjoy her stories.  The repertoire this time included: “Bluebell” with the rumble seat, a car that folks she would babysit for gave her to get around in;  and Margie (Clorinda’s sister) teaching music in Orinda and putting on a choir performance that Clorinda loved.

Rachel joined us for dinner on Tuesday and regaled us with updates about her new boyfriend who lives in Nashville.  I had told Clorinda at coffee that she could expect updates about Rachel’s love life – and I was not wrong.

The four of us had a last meal together on Friday night, with Alicia flying to San Francisco on Saturday.  Everyone really enjoyed the meal at C.T. Provisions – our new favourite McKinney restaurant.  Clorinda opted for the duck special and I had the Cornish game hen – plenty of leftovers from both.

 

 

Anne was in Ohio, helping her parents to get their cabin ready for sale.  Guessing they’ll be living fulltime in Florida now.  Looks like both Anne and her Mum, Carolyn, had a good time at the Rock ‘N Roll Hall of Fame.

Clorinda has been enjoying sampling my library books.  This one is about a journalist for the New Yorker, who moves to Lyon in his fifties to learn all about French cooking.  She got pretty bored with the details of the French cuisine and moved on to something else.

On Sunday, Independence Day (and nobody asked me this year if we celebrate July 4th in Scotland), we took Clorinda to Filtered for coffee, quiche, and crossword with Keith.  Well – she declined to participate in the crossword competition.  We watched the celebration from the Capital Mall in Washington, D.C. and the fireworks from New York, which are always so spectacular.  R.E.O Speedwagon and Susannah Hoffs both performed songs from around 1980 – still going strong in their sixties with the same material from when I was in high school.

Will sent this picture of Ollie.  I was quite impressed and asked who was the artist.  Even more impressed to find it was Will, using Christine’s art pens.

I did receive a number of great July 4th pictures.  Here’s Campbell and Molly’s penguin enjoying a boat ride to the fireworks on a lake in Iowa:

Do you like his patriotic bowtie?  Our penguin got very puffed up when he saw these pictures.

Here is a picture from Tim’s vacation location in Colorado (Alta Lakes), and one from earlier in the week with his daughter, Imogene, posing at the high elevation pass that shares her name:

And finally, a lovely sunset from Blair’s boat in South Padre island:

I was making good progress on “Babbitt” by Sinclair Lewis, when I got an email from the library saying that I needed to return “The Final Revival of Opal and Nev” because another patron had a request for it.  So I switched over to that right away.

The story centers on a fictional interracial rock duo from the 1970s: Opal is a Black proto Afro-punk singer from Detroit, and Nev is a goofy white British singer-songwriter.

Opal and Nev become famous in 1971, when a riot occurs at one of their concerts during which their Black drummer is beaten to death by a white mob. The book is told in the form of a faux oral history that’s being written by Sunny, the first Black editor-in-chief of a music magazine — who also happens to be the daughter of the late drummer.

I enjoyed the faux oral history approach for a while, with each character having their say for a paragraph or so, before moving on to a different character’s view.  But I grew tired of the choppiness pretty quickly – I would have preferred lengthier sections from each, and more meat from the interviewer character (Sunny).

This book is on all the “Best of 2021 so far” lists, and it certainly provides some entertainment value, but not one I would recommend.  I hope the person who picks this up from the library after me appreciates it more.

“Another Ticket” by Eric Clapton has been on my turntable as I’ve been composing this post.  This is not one of the highly rated, popular Clapton disks, but it is one of my favourites and I believe the one that I’ve played most over the years.

The album is Clapton’s seventh solo studio record.  It was recorded by Tom Dowd at the Compass Point Studios in Nassau, Bahamas, and has that rich bass sound that seems to come from that venue.  It achieved modest commercial success peaking at number 18 in the UK charts.

Here’s the title track:

That’s Gary Brooker on keyboards.  He was the lead singer and keyboard player with Procul Harem of “Whiter Shade of Pale” fame.

Albert Lee plays the alternate lead guitar and I think he’s fantastic.  I was lucky enough to see him play with Clapton at the Edinburgh Playhouse around the time this record was released.  You can hear his contribution and the great bass of Dave Markee on this Sleepy John Estes cover:

Stay safe and kind.

 

 

 

Fortnight in Review – June 27, 2021

“Getting back to normal – kinda”

Apologies for skipping the post last week – it was Father’s Day after all, and I spent 4 hours in the afternoon (when I would typically work on the post) driving down to Austin.  More on that later.

Two weeks ago we were starting to get appointments organized for Clorinda to get all caught up on what we’re calling her “maintenance.”  On Monday she visited Dr. Sabzali (our family doctor) and had blood drawn and all the other new patient fun.  She relaxed with me in the evening, watching the Olympic swimming trials.  She really enjoys the races but thinks the commentators spoil her enjoyment with all of their chatter.  I am really looking forward to the Olympics next month.

It’s turning into a typical Texas summer here very quickly, and we had to take our walks early in the morning on Tuesday and Wednesday to avoid the mix of humidity and high temperatures that turn a pleasant walk into a chore.

I was out and about quite a bit on Wednesday, with a business meeting in Craig Ranch (not far from the house) and then lunch with a friend from Dell at TruFire in Frisco.  I love their falafel combination plate.  It was great to catch up with Chad – he brought me up to speed on all the crazy goings-on at AIG.  It felt good to get out and about and meet folks.

While I was out and about, Clorinda visited Leah for a haircut.  Leah can now proudly report that she has taken care of all three generations.

 

 

We had a wonderful anniversary dinner (number 4) on Thursday  at C.T. Provisions in downtown McKinney.  This is the place where I love the voodoo Benedict at brunch.  Their dinner was even better than brunch.  Those mussels may be the best that I’ve had, and D’s Hamachi was very fresh and tasty.

The wild boar bolognaise with egg-yolk pappardelle pasta was amazing – my only comment would be that the croutons didn’t really add anything to the dish – pine nuts would have been a better crunch.

C.T.’s also has an excellent cocktail bar – their vesper was delicious.

Traditional gifts for four year anniversaries are flowers and fruit.  So I got McD some nice roses and then performed “the fruit of my labours” during the week, “Your Song” by Elton John.

Meanwhile, in Amarillo, Will was attempting the Big Texan restaurant’s “Free 72 oz Steak, if you can eat it all” challenge.  The key is that “eat it all” includes roll, baked potato, salad and I don’t know what else.  What do you think his chances are?  Well, Tina, owner of the place, thought them pretty slim and wagered him a pair of longhorns that he couldn’t do it – the same kind you see on the front of the limo that picked Will and Christine up and drove them to the Big Texan ranch.

The picture on the left says it all.  I had no doubt he would force it all down.  What a crazy scene – like John Candy in “The Great Outdoors.”

The only difference is that Candy is attempting “the ole 96’er” – even more than Will demolished.  He didn’t make the trip to Amarillo just for the eating contest, but was actually there for Alexis’ wedding.  And of course he had to have a pair of cowboy boots – nobody told him your jeans are supposed to go over them – maybe a new fashion trend.

 

I enjoyed FaceTime and phone calls from all three sons on Father’s Day, before making the drive down to Austin with Penelope for meetings on Monday morning.  Campbell sent an assortment of nuts that we’ve been enjoying.

Our Executive Committee got together for the first time in person in around 18 months on Monday morning.  Several of my IT team members traveled to the office as well.  Really starting to feel like we’re getting back to some semblance of normality.  We had an IT happy hour at Baker Street Pub on Monday afternoon, and then I enjoyed a delicious dinner with the ExCo at ATX Cocina.  That’s the place where the entire menu is gluten free and Brent was like a kid in a candy store, not having to be so picky about what he ordered.

I had a good boys night with Damon and Sean on Tuesday, with stops at the Roosevelt Room for cocktails, followed by a nice cigar lounge.  I loved the “Black Pearl” cocktail which was served in a treasure box.

We worked in the Austin office on Wednesday morning, and then Damon and I accompanied Penelope back to McKinney.  We spent a fun evening with Damon getting lots of great Clorinda stories.  She asked us the next day if we “had any more friends coming to visit.”

We had some more boy fun on Thursday afternoon, with a vendor hosting us in a suite at Globe Life field to watch the Texas Rangers play the Oakland A’s in an afternoon baseball game.  The new stadium is a very impressive architectural feat, with the retractable roof closed to provide some respite from the heat and humidity.  The old stadium is still standing next door and the Cowboys stadium is just behind.

I took a picture of the A’s lineup to show Ben that “Chappy” was playing.  That’s his favourite player and he got to attend an A’s game recently in California to check him out.

 

 

 

Campbell flew to Hawaii with Molly on Wednesday and sent this great picture of a sea turtle that was enjoying swimming with them.

Things were busy at the house on Saturday.  Amy visited us for the afternoon (in for a few days from Santa Fe.)  And Jose and crew installed the long awaited vent hood and stovetop.  Just the oven still to come.  We’re quite pleased with the results.

That center burner has two flames and can boil water very quickly.  Put to a good test by McD making pasta on Saturday night.  I really like the sleek lines of the hood, and Jose made sure it was high enough to give me good access.  He’s not much taller than Diana and so I appreciate him considering my height as he does the installations.

Speaking of cooking, Finn continued to explore his baking capabilities, this week with donuts.  Here he is mixing up the ingredients, then leaving the dough to rise, and a yummy looking final product.  I don’t imagine they lasted too long in a houseful of young men.

 

 

I received a very interesting late birthday gift from Anne and Denny.  It’s a book by their friend, Macon Fry, titled “They Called Us River Rats.”  Diana and I enjoyed an oyster fest at Macon’s “batture” a few years ago, and he is quite the character.

Here he is with one of his goats.  His friend Derek Houston had been at the Grammy awards a few days before the oyster fest, and Macon told me the story of him calling to tell him they had a “Goat Check” at the Beverly Hills hotel – apparently the “Coat Check” sign was in a fancy font that made it look just like that.

I suspect you’re wondering what a “batture” might be.  Well here’s the description of the book from Macon’s website that will help clear that up, along with a picture.

“They Called Us River Rats is the previously untold story of perhaps the oldest outsider settlement in America, an invisible community on the annually-flooded shore of the river. We exist in the place between the normal high and low water line of the Mississippi River, known in Louisiana as the batture. For the better part of two centuries, batture-dwellers like me have raised shanty-boats on stilts, built water-adapted homes, foraged, fished, and survived using the skills a river environment teaches. Over the years, batture-dwellers have been reviled, jailed or lynched by citizens on the other side of the levee. Even today, beaches erode under houses. When the river rises, barges and river-borne debris can slam into homes.

Accounts of crime, disaster and romance on the riverside appear in newspapers and archives, but until now the stories of a batture way of life have existed only in the memories of those who have lived here. Beginning in 2000, I set about recording the stories of all the old batture dwellers I could find: maritime workers, willow furniture makers, fishermen, artists and river shrimpers. I’m still uncovering stories in libraries and archives of fortune-tellers, faith healers, and wild bird trappers who lived on the river.

Now I am among the senior generation of “River Rats” living in a vestigial colony of 12 “camps” on New Orleans’ river batture, a fragment of a settlement that once stretched nearly six miles along the riverfront and numbered hundreds of homes. It is the last riparian settlement on the Lower Mississippi, an echo of life outside urban zoning, planning and flood protection.”

I have only scanned portions of the book so far, but have it high up on the “to be read” list.

For the first time in a while, I stopped reading a book after about 20 pages this week.  “Terrorist” by John Updike sounded very good, but I just couldn’t persevere with all the Islamic names and terms.  I have very much enjoyed several other books by Updike, but this one was just going to be too much work and not any kind of relaxing escape.

I replaced “Terrorist” with “Babbitt” by Sinclair Lewis.  This is a book published in 1922, and described as “a satirical novel about American culture and society that critiques the vacuity of middle class life and the social pressure toward conformity.  The controversy provoked by Babbitt was influential in the decision to award the Novel Prize in Literature to Lewis in 1930.

I’ve been enjoying the quite dated phrases and terms in the book so far, and the descriptions of real estate marketing practices enacted by the main character.  More to come next week.

Interestingly, I read that the word “Babbitt” entered the English language as a “person and especially a business or professional man who conforms unthinkingly to prevailing middle-class standards.  I think I’ve met a few “Babbitt’s” on the few times that I visited the local golf country clubs.

Galactic’s “Coolin’ Off” is the latest release from the Tipitina’s Record Club – arrived last week and has been on regular rotation.  Tipitina’s is a famed music club in New Orleans, and members of Galactic purchased it just before the pandemic.  I joined the record club to try and help them weather the storm – running a music club is hard work in the best of circumstances.

Released in 1996, “Coolin’ Off” was the first popular record for the band, with the core lineup augmented with brass and other guests:

  • Theryl DeClouet – vocals
  • Erik Jekabson – trumpet
  • Robert Mercurio – bass, photography
  • Stanton Moore – drums
  • Mark Mullins – trombone
  • Jeff Raines – guitar
  • Eric Traub – tenor saxophone
  • Dan Prothero – programming, producer, engineer, editing, design, mixing
  • Raymond Pumilia – photography
  • Rich Vogel – keyboards

Mark Mullins is the leader in the four trombone band, Bonerama, that I really enjoy.  I believe Stanton Moore to be one of the most talented current drummers – you can always tell when he’s sitting in with a band – things move to a whole different level.

Here are a couple of samples:

And a great example of Stanton Moore on drums:

Remain patient and kind.