Week in Review – July 30, 2023

“Let’s find a New Orleans home”

We loaded up and drove to New Orleans on Tuesday.  It’s about an eight hour drive, that we broke up with lunch at Athena in Shreveport.  We arrived at Denny and Anne’s home on Webster a bit after 7pm.  They’re in Boulder, CO, but the boys were there to entertain us.

Our first task on Wednesday was to secure a safety deposit box for our valuables.  The Regions bank on St. Charles had a vault and boxes available.  It was a bit of a process to select one and determine if it was available, but thirty minutes later we had everything secure.

We met Tracy, one of our realtors, at the fist of six houses at noon.  I wasn’t expecting Diana to be very impressed, but a few minutes in she turned to me and mouthed “I like it!”  Go figure.  I liked it a lot more than the first time I saw it also.  The Garden District location is fantastic, although not exactly where we were planning to be.

The next five houses were a bit of a blur for us.  I liked the two we made offers on last week less the second time around.   We eliminated one and decided to pause on the other.

Back on Webster, we sat down to review our thoughts.  Fifteen minutes later and I had a table summarizing our thoughts over to Tracy.  Let’s make an offer on the first one we saw in the Garden District.

We submitted an offer on Thursday afternoon, had an attractive counter back quickly, and signed a contract in the evening.  Now it’s on to inspections.  The home was built in 1860 and renovated ten years ago, so I’m sure there will be some issues to be negotiated.

The counter was actually received while Diana and I were enjoying a delicious lunch at Shaya.  We thought we deserved it after all the activity of the last few weeks.  The whipped cream cheese, with shallots, dill and trout roe was ridiculously good, as was the old standby lamb ragu humus.

Kenny volunteered to close his friend’s taco restaurant in the Warehouse district while he was on vacation.  We went with him and met Kara, Ian and Nina.  They had just come from the Barbie movie, and all enjoyed it.  The tacos, margaritas and service were excellent.  It’s so much fun to hang out with the Kirsches.

I dropped Diana at the New Orleans airport on Friday – she headed to San Francisco via Dallas to check up on her mom for a few days.  I dropped a deposit check off at the realtor office on my way back – things are moving ahead.  I saw an email shortly after that showing that the Washington house was “under contract.”

I decided to treat myself to a nice breakfast on Saturday morning.  Ruby Slipper is a five minute walk from the Washington house – so I thought I’d give that a try.  Good choice.  I got the “peacemaker” benedicts – a choice of two.  The St. Charles chicken and Cochon were both excellent.  I hope to be coming back to this place often.

 

 

After that yummy breakfast, I delivered Morrison to Kenny and Kara for safekeeping.  He seemed ok, if not a little stressed out by the move.

Kara suggested a music movie at a gallery for afternoon entertainment.  It was sold out but we thought some folks would cancel.  I came up with guitar wizard Marc Stone at the Bourbon Orleans hotel at 4pm as an alternative.

The movie did seem to have some cancellations, but we decided to park at the fire station, “Got any room for an old, retired Chief to park?”, and go to the Marc Stone show.

With a bit of time to kill, we played some pool in the local Irish bar.

Marc Stone was as excellent as I remembered.  All three of us thoroughly enjoyed his set.

His finger picking and slide guitar are excellent.

A wedding second line parade came through while we were listening to the show.  Classic New Orleans:

After the entertainment, we stopped by “Butcher” for sandwiches.  Always a great choice.  I got something similar to a Philly cheesesteak.

Another great afternoon in New Orleans.  Looking forward to being there soon.

Sunday was another driving day.  I started at 6:30am from New Orleans to Austin.  About 30 mins in I realized that I’d left my laptop in Denny’s office.  That added an hour to an already long drive.  I arrived in Austin 9 hours later.  I did have one fun stop in La Grange.  I’ve been listening to the ZZ Top song about that town since I was in University.

Another great book again this week.  “Such Kindness” by Andre Dubus III really held my attention.  Just as good as “Townie”, which I enjoyed a lot many years ago.

The main character, Tom, broke his hips and had screws installed.  I could certainly relate to some of these descriptions:

“I drink more water.  I try to sit straight in my chair, but the hip screws are burrowing hotly into my bones and I need to stretch out and lie down.”

Here’s the online plot summary:

“Tom Lowe’s identity and his pride are invested in the work he does with his back and his hands. He designed and built his family’s dream home, working extra hours to pay off the adjustable rate mortgage he took on the property, convinced he is making every sacrifice for the happiness of his wife and son. Until, in a moment of fatigued inattention, shingling a roof in too-bright sunlight, he falls.

In constant pain, addicted to painkillers at the cost of his relationships with his wife and son, Tom slowly comes to realize that he can never work again. If he is not a working man, who is he? He is not, he believes, the kind of person who lives in subsidized housing, though that is where he has ended up. He is not the kind of person who hatches a scheme to commit convenience-check fraud, together with neighbors he considers lowlifes, until he finds himself stealing his banker’s trash.

Who is Tom Lowe, and who will he become? Can he find a way to reunite hands and heart, mind and spirit, to be once again a giver and not just a taker, to forge a self-acceptance deeper than pride?

Andre Dubus III’s soulful cast includes Trina, the struggling mom next door who sells her own plasma to get by; Dawn, the tough-talking owner of the local hairdressing salon; Jamie, a well-meaning pothead college student ready to stick it to “the man”; and a mix of strangers and neighbors who will never know the role they played in changing a life. To one man’s painful moral journey, Dubus brings compassion with an edge of dark absurdity, forging a novel as absorbing as it is profound.”

Kenny shared this gem with me.  I love the Hiatt and Douglas combo:

Another really interesting combination:

Coexist peacefully, with kindness and compassion for all!

Fortnight in Review – July 23rd, 2023

“Busy!”

The house stager arrived on Monday.  After asking us to remove the “clutter”, the stager replaced it with a different kind of clutter that didn’t appeal to me at all.  I weeded some of that out and we’ll live with it.  Diana would have had a fit if she was here.

In addition, the window washer arrived and spent several hours making all the panes shiny inside and out.  The window replacement guys also replaced two foggy windows in the bathroom.  Lots of coming and going for me to coordinate while working.

I received this picture from colleagues in Guatemala.  Upside down lighting from a volcano close to Antigua – the one that is usually spouting every ten mins or so when we visit.

Here’s an article that explains the phenomenon:

https://guernseypress.com/news/viral-news/2019/08/05/upward-lightning-on-guatemala-mountain-captured-in-striking-video/

The pictures for the various home selling websites and flyers were taken on Tuesday.  The guy seemed to know what he was doing and was very thorough.

Wednesday was attacked by nature day.  One of those ridiculous doves flew head first into a living room window – not used to them being so clean and shiny.  Then I had to kill a wasp nest on the arbor – amazing how quickly they construct their homes.

The house went live on the listing services on Friday evening, and I quickly received two requests to show it on Saturday – the first at 10am.

Kenny teased me with this video of the Saturday night happenings at Le Bon Temps Rouler.  Hopefully we’ll be there very soon.

There was an Open House for a couple of hours on Sunday afternoon, so I had to vacate the premises again.  There were three cars parked outside before the doors even opened, and a lot of interest.

I picked up Diana and Alicia at the airport on Monday, and we quickly received some good news – an offer at above asking price, with no contingencies, and full pre-approval on the buyer’s mortgage.  “We’ll take it.”

The inspector arrived and the only thing they wanted fixed was the pool heater – we haven’t used it in several years and had no idea it wasn’t working.  First folks who looked at the house are now all set to buy it – closing on August 9th.

With all this good news in hand, I decided to make a trip to New Orleans to look for a new home.  I looked at five houses and thought two were good possibilities.  I treated myself to this amazing po’boy sandwich at the New Orleans airport.  Mopho has an outpost there.  Yum!

We submitted offers on those two homes the next day.  The counter offers were disappointing, and so we decided to do nothing further until Diana could look with me.   We planned that for the following Tuesday – driving down and then looking at places on Wednesday.

Diana’s mom had some significant health challenges over the weekend that had us very focused on making sure she got the care and support needed.  In between dealing with that, we were working the logistics of what to take down and leave in New Orleans, and what to leave home, given that we’ll be homeless soon.  Valuables were organized to go in a safety deposit box in a bank vault in New Orleans on arrival.

What a whirlwind, but I don’t think it gets much easier than that when it comes to selling a home.

My book this week was “The Door to Door Bookstore” by Carsten Henn.  What an excellent read.  Just a beautiful book all around.  I don’t have it with me as I write this post, so can’t share some of the quotes that I dog-eared.  You should read this right away!  Here’s the online summary:

“Small-town German bookseller Carl Kollhoff delivers his books to special customers in the evening hours after closing time, walking through the picturesque alleys of the city. These people are almost like friends to him, and he is their most important connection to the world.

When Kollhoff unexpectedly loses his job, it takes the power of books and a nine-year-old girl to make them all find the courage to rebuild their bonds with each other.

A bestselling phenomenon internationally, Carsten Henn’s The Door-to-Door Bookstore is a feel-good novel about books and friendship.”

Here’s something quite different.  Oryema was a Ugandan musician who had to escape during the height of the Amin rule.  He became part of Peter Gabriel’s WOMAD tour and his first three albums were published on Gabriel’s label.

And here’s a classic from the wonderful Joan Armatrading:

Coexist peacefully, with kindness and compassion for all!

 

Week in Review – July 9th, 2023

“Those are some strong bones!”

We joined Lisa and friends for a birthday pool party at her home near downtown Dallas on Monday.   She has a very modern home and recently added what Diana describes as the perfect backyard pool.  I enjoyed meeting several new folks, particularly Mark Mundy, who hosts an Americana radio show on KNON, the local community radio station.

https://www.knon.org/texas-renegade-radio-friday/

We had a lazy day of rest on July 4th, my first as a citizen of both sides of the Independence activities.  Denny taunted me with this picture and the caption, “This is what a patriot wears and does today.”

Diana went with me for my two week post-operation visit on Wednesday.  The first thing the Physician’s Assistant said was, “My, you have some strong bones!”  Apparently Dr. Haslam had to work very hard to get the screws out and was constantly worried that they were going to break.  Hopefully this leg trouble is mostly behind me now.  I should be pain free in less than a month.  I do have to wonder how the thing broke in the first place if the bones are so strong.  The Cooper Clinic bone density test also said I had the bones of a 25 year old man.

I watched the “Blackberry” movie on Wednesday evening.  Just a crazy story of how the two friends started the company, made it huge, and then ran it into the ground by following bad advice to manufacture in China, and discounting the iPhone threat.  One of the two friends sold all his stock at the peak and is secretly one of the wealthiest folks in Canada.

The early rounds of play at Wimbledon are usually the most entertaining.  Andy Murray and Stefano Tsitsipas provided a very entertaining match.  Murray was looking strong but the 4th set was delayed until the next day because of the curfew.   He came out flatter the next afternoon and sadly exited the tournament.

We watched the new season of “The Lincoln Lawyer” on Thursday night, before Alicia called to torture her mom.  We enjoy the show.

I dropped Diana at the airport on Friday, and sat back to enjoy the empty, quiet house for a bit.

She worked with Adamo and the crew to complete another crazy Dali puzzle.

I decided to catch up on my growing stack of New Yorker magazines over the weekend, rather than dive into a new book.  This article about Larkin Poe, a Southern rock band fronted by two talented ladies, reminded me of watching them at Gretna Fest earlier this year.

https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2023/04/17/the-ministers-of-the-lap-steel-revival-tour

My favourite album changes from week to week.  “Duke” by Genesis was my go to this week.  I think this was the later line up at their peak, particularly Tony Banks keyboard playing.

The last two songs, “Duke’s Travels” and “Duke’s End”, have always struck me as something like the opposite of an overture, weaving together elements from all the prior songs.  I love the dual drummers:

https://open.spotify.com/track/0H52iIUgADZnStfXURJq3Z?si=b5c9e0eab79c459e

That starting point took me to another favourite from Genesis, “Wind and Wuthering.”  This was the last album to feature Steve Hackett on guitar.  I think his contribution to the overall sound was really missed in future offerings.

Coexist peacefully, with kindness and compassion for all!

 

 

Week in Review – July 2nd, 2023

“Goodbye Penelope, and a lot of other stuff”

Monday was a sad day.  I took Penelope for an inspection requested by Rick, a prospective buyer.  They found a couple of issues, but nothing too bad.  Rick and Lisa came over and closed the deal on Monday night.  So sad to say goodbye to my companion of over 10 years.  Logically, it was the right time to sell, with almost 80,000 miles and about to lose a lot of resale value.  Emotionally is a whole different story.  The whole sales process was very quick and smooth.  Hoping the same for our house.

Tuesday was packing day with the movers.  I owe a huge amount to Diana for getting everything organized and for all the packing she did.  I was very little help at all.  We got so fortunate with the moving company we chose.  Keith, Fernando and the crew were wonderful.

At one point in the day, Diana appeared at my office door and I could tell she was in some kind of emotional state.  Always a bit scary.  Turns out Fernando had just found the very valuable and sentimental jewelry that she “hid” when we had the bathroom remodeled.    She thought it had been hidden in the pocket of one of my suits, but didn’t remember which and hadn’t told me about it.  We were pretty much resigned to the fact that if it didn’t show up as we were packing clothes, then it was likely gone.  Fernando found it on the floor next to one of the wardrobe boxes she packed – apparently it had been in the pocket of some of her clothing.  What a blessing that it was found!

Something else that was uncovered – Diana’s birth announcement.  She thinks her Mom hand drew it all.  The C major triad with the three names is great.

I also found this penguin that Olivia drew for me many years ago:

Wednesday was loading for storage day.  The truck was half full by 10am, good news given the heat outside.  Keith and crew were all over it.

Thursday was a partial day of rest from moving activities.  Diana had Janelle  over in the evening and broke news of the move to her.  She couldn’t break herself away from her picture sorting crusade for too long.  Days of poring through albums and stacks to determine what she can’t live without.

The painters started on Friday morning.  All the colour is gone, to be replaced by “Worldly Gray.”  That’s the colour of the family room and kitchen, and now the majority of the rest of the house.  Rodrigo, Maria, and Jesus did a great job and were very kind.  They will finish up on Monday.

 

 

I sold the pool table on Saturday morning.  That turned out to be a lot more than anyone was expecting.  Those 3 slates that make up the bed are very heavy.  Cesar and his buddy spent 3 hours breaking the table apart into manageable pieces.  What a lot of work!

The house is very empty now.  Here’s the calendar for the first part of the move.  It’s funny to think that we just made the move decision on June 11th.

While the guys were battling the pool table, a work buddy, Sean, was building a garage.  Some folks just have a load of hidden talents.  I can’t imagine taking on securing those roof trusses.

 

 

I was able to catch up on some backlogged New Yorker magazine reading while the painters were busy.  This article on the multi-year development that ended up yielding my favourite, the CrunchWrap Supreme, tickled me.

https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2023/04/24/taco-bells-innovation-kitchen-the-front-line-in-the-stunt-food-wars

I also enjoyed this article about a man who teaches elephants to play various instruments and records their orchestral performances.  There’s a lot more to it – this guy is a psychology professor during the day, and a big part of the downtown New York avant garde music scene at night.

https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2023/04/03/david-sulzer-profile-neuroscience-music

I wasn’t able to start a new book this week.  Hoping to make it to the library tomorrow.

I enjoyed this song from a band I haven’t heard of:

And this one from a band I know well.  Those old Faces albums with Rod Stewart really are classics:

And another one from an artist I don’t hear too often that caught my ear:

Coexist peacefully with patience and kindness for all!